Love Busters

This fifteenth anniversary edition helps couples identify and overcome the most common habits that destroy the feeling of love.

A Classic Resource from Dr. Harley--Now Revised and Repackaged to Highlight Six Changes in Habits That Will Save Your Marriage According to relationship expert and bestselling author Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr., after couples get married, they often develop habits that slowly undermine the love they have for each other. If tolerated, these Love Busters--selfish demands, disrespectful judgments, angry outbursts, dishonesty, annoying habits, and independent behavior--will destroy a couple's love for each other. The solution, however, isn't merely to avoid these negative behaviors and attitudes. Rather, it's to cultivate Love Builders--positive habits that will strengthen the relationship. With Dr. Harley's expert guidance, couples will be able to avoid the major causes of marital unhappiness and disappointment. Instead of tearing their marriage apart, they will learn to build it into the marriage they had needed and wanted. This book is a perfect companion to His Needs, Her Needs and will be useful to pastors, counselors, and couples.

Bestselling author and marriage expert offers a practical guide to the tools and habits couples need to enjoy a passionate, life-long love together.

Do you know the Four Gifts of Love®? You exchange rings on your wedding day. But do you really know what you promised? Hopefully, your promise included committing to a lifetime of loving your spouse that includes the gifts of love: care, protection, honesty, and time. Together, these gifts are essential ingredients for fulfilling your promises to love and care for each other, sustaining the feelings of romantic love for a lifetime. These gifts have helped thousands develop a wonderful marriage. But these same gifts can also be applied to a relationship with God, developing a more intimate and meaningful relationship with Him. This seven-lesson participant's guide for the Four Gifts of Love® Class and companion videos will help you learn more about these gifts and create a way of life that allows both of these important and unique relationships to flourish! The Four Gifts of Love® Participant's Guide is for students enrolled in the Four Gifts of Love® Class. This interactive and multimedia approach to marriage/pre-marriage education encourages couples to create a lifestyle that will help sustain the feelings of romantic love for a lifetime. Based upon the time-tested concepts of Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr., internationally-known author of over 20 marriage books, including the classic His Needs, Her Needs (Revell, 1986, 2022) with over 23 translations, this class utilizes professionally animated and acted videos, engaging questions and reading material, and much more! Drs. Jennifer Harley Chalmers and Willard F. Harley, Jr., are licensed psychologists, authors, and international speakers. Dr. Willard Harley is the author of the best-selling and internationally known His Needs, Her Needs (Revell, 1986, 2022). Go to our website, https://www.FourGiftsofLove.ORG, for more resources by these authors.

Five Steps to Romantic Love will help you and your spouse to know and meet each other's needs and overcome the habits that destroy your love. This workbook takes the proven concepts found in Dr. Harley's His Needs, Her Needs and Love Busters and helps you make them a reality in your marriage. All of the worksheets, inventories, and questionnaires that Dr. Harley recommends in these two bestsellers are available here in a full-sized and easily reproducible format. Fall in love again and enjoy an intimate, passionate marriage that lasts.

Discover a proven, life-changing foundation to build an extraordinary marriage and nurture your bond with God. Do you know the Four Gifts of Love®? It's a Christian faith-based marriage foundation that thousands across the world use today. The goal is to live a lifestyle of loving your spouse (or future spouse) that includes the gifts of care, protection, honesty, and time. Together, these gifts are an essential foundation for fulfilling your promises to love and care for each other, sustaining the feelings of romantic love for a lifetime. These gifts have helped thousands develop a wonderful marriage. But these same gifts can also be applied to a relationship with God, developing a more intimate and meaningful relationship with Him. In this book, you will learn about these gifts and how to create a lifestyle that allows both of these important relationships to flourish. The core of this book was previously published under The Four Gifts of Love® Participant’s Guide: Revised and Expanded Edition for the Four Gifts of Love® Class (Chalmers & Harley, 2004, 2016), however, now couples may learn about the concepts without taking the class. We hope that couples will enroll in the class after reading the book for a more in-depth process to help create the Four Gifts of Love® lifestyle. Drs. Jennifer Harley Chalmers and Willard F. Harley, Jr., are licensed psychologists, authors, and international speakers. Dr. Harley is the author of the best-selling and internationally known His Needs, Her Needs (Revell, 1986, 2022). Go to our website, FourGiftsofLove.ORG and Foundation4Marriage.COM for more resources by these authors.

How can a marriage survive an affair? Infidelity is one of life's most painful experiences for everyone involved--the betrayed spouse, the children, the extended family members, and even the lover and the wayward spouse. Once trust is broken, how can a couple ever hope to reconcile? In Surviving an Affair, Drs. Harley and Chalmers help you understand every aspect of infidelity--from the beginning of an affair through the restoration of the marriage. They describe: - why affairs begin and end - how to end an affair - how to restore the marriage - how to manage resentment and rebuild trust Surviving an Affair guides you step-by-step from the devastating blow of infidelity to a loving and trusting marriage. All questionnaires mentioned within this book are available in a fillable pdf format from the authors' websites identified on the last page.

Everett Worthington provides a Christian perspective and biblically based theory of marriage and marriage counseling. With an analysis of the individual, the couple and the family, Everett uses techniques drawn from several psychological schools of thought, combined with solid biblical principles to help guide counselors through the process of intervention, assessment and implementation of methods for change.