131 Connecting Conversations For Parents And Teens

Help you teenager engage, connect, and grow! This Christian parenting book is packed with creative conversation starters and practical parenting wisdom that will guide you on the journey. Today's teenagers are perhaps busier and more disconnected than ever before. Help your teenager gain the face-to-face conversations skills that will equip him or her for life. In this book, parents will discover four practical connection skills they can use to engage their teen and deepen their bond. Then, take action, with creative conversation starters that are designed to help you and your teenager connect like never before. This is not merely another volume crammed with the latest parenting advice. Instead, it will assist you in taking massive action.

The teenage years have a lot in common with the terrible twos. During both stages our kids are doing exciting new things, but they're also pushing boundaries (and buttons) and throwing tantrums. The major developmental task facing both age groups is also the same: kids must pull away from parents and begin to assert their own independence. No wonder they sometimes act as if they think they're the center of the universe. This book gives you the facts and an approach to talk about these topics: Sources of teen stress Social media issues Peer pressure Drugs and alcohol use Sex and sexual assault Bullies and cyberbullying Mental health issues, including depression and suicide

Inspire your kids to pause their electronics and grow their social skills, through highly engaging, face-to-face conversations! In this book, you will discover:* Why conversations matter and connecting with others is important.* Three strategies to engage kids and keep the conversation going.* Five tools to help children develop their social skills.* How to use conversations to guide children toward positive change. Then, dive into 131 creative, engaging, and fun conversations that will get your kids talking. This book is for children who desire to build face-to-face connections that develop into life-long friendships. It is also for parents, foster parents, teachers, coaches, youth pastors, mentors, and everyone who wants to help their kids to connect in an increasingly disconnected world! Conversation Starters Include:* If the zoo offered to let you keep one exotic animal as a pet, which animal would you take home with you?* If you were principal of your school for a day, what is one school rule that you would change?* No two snowflakes are exactly alike. No two people are the same either. What is something that makes you unique? Jed Jurchenko is passionate about supporting weary Christ-followers in leading their families, growing their friendships, and caffeinating their faith so that they can live joy-filled, Christ-honoring, lives. Jed is a husband, daddy to four girls, a marriage and family therapist, psychology professor, and an author. Jed and his wife, Jenny, blog at www.coffeeshopconversations.com

Winner of the Healthy Teen Network’s Carol Mendez Cassell Award for Excellence in Sexuality Education and the American Sociological Association's Children and Youth Section's 2012 Distinguished Scholarly Research Award For American parents, teenage sex is something to be feared and forbidden: most would never consider allowing their children to have sex at home, and sex is a frequent source of family conflict. In the Netherlands, where teenage pregnancies are far less frequent than in the United States, parents aim above all for family cohesiveness, often permitting young couples to sleep together and providing them with contraceptives. Drawing on extensive interviews with parents and teens, Not Under My Roof offers an unprecedented, intimate account of the different ways that girls and boys in both countries negotiate love, lust, and growing up. Tracing the roots of the parents’ divergent attitudes, Amy T. Schalet reveals how they grow out of their respective conceptions of the self, relationships, gender, autonomy, and authority. She provides a probing analysis of the way family culture shapes not just sex but also alcohol consumption and parent-teen relationships. Avoiding caricatures of permissive Europeans and puritanical Americans, Schalet shows that the Dutch require self-control from teens and parents, while Americans guide their children toward autonomous adulthood at the expense of the family bond.

A Guide to Meaningful Parent-Son Conversations Do you know what your son really thinks about girls, school, God, his future? It's not easy to be sure, is it? Boys aren't known for being great communicators, especially entering their teen years. How do you connect with him on the things that are important to both of you? Based on tried-and-true parenting wisdom, this book shares fun, thoughtful questions and talking points that lead to meaningful, natural conversations about · physical and emotional changes your son is facing · staying pure in an oversexualized culture · using social media responsibly · and much more This structured approach offers practical ways to bond with your son and encourage him in his faith, talk about the challenges he faces in school and with friends, and show him that you love him dearly before he enters the turbulent teen years.

You Can Effectively Parent an Adopted or Foster Child Parenting under the best of circumstances is difficult, but because of their unique needs, raising children from hard places brings additional challenges. You might discover that traditional techniques that may have worked for you with your birth children are not working with your adopted or foster child. Renown child development expert Dr. Karyn Purvis will give you practical advice and powerful tools you can use to encourage secure attachment in your child, just as she did for coauthor Lisa Qualls. You will benefit from Karyn’s decades of research and understanding, plus Lisa’s hands-on experience and successful implementation of the strategies shared in this book. You will learn how to simplify your approach using scripts, nurture your child, combat chronic fear, teach respect, and develop other valuable skills to add to your parenting toolbox. The Connected Parent will help you lovingly guide your children and bring renewed hope and healing to your family.

Put away your phone and get to know your family. We are bringing intentional parenting to the table, the dinner table that is. Don't touch your smart phone for 20 minutes and have a conversation with your kids. Your smart phone will be waiting for you after dinner. Social media will always be there later. Your kids though, time with your children is precious. Babies grow too quick and the grade school age kids, tweens to middle school and then high school teens all happen in an instant. Take time while everyone is sitting and attentive at the dinner table to create conversation. We aren't talking family debates, we are encouraging families to gain a better understanding of who each child and parent is as a human, not just a member of the family. We have created this family book that's to be left on the dinner table or in the kitchen. Start a conversation, create connections and maybe even laugh a little by using our simple questions. We have formulated questions that are specific to kids for you to help gain a better understanding of who your kids are. The "How was your day?" question is great, but can be so surface. The questions in this conversation book go a bit deeper, sometimes funny, light-hearted, and sometimes inquisitive. All were created to help you be intentional in spending time and growing your relationship with your child. There are questions for parents that the kids can ask. These parent questions will help your child know who you are and learn a little bit about how you grew up, who you were then, what you are proud of and more. We also have general questions. These are perfect for nights when you just want to talk. They also work well as conversation starters when you have dinner guests. Use this book to help sibling relationships as well. These family talks can help each brother, sister, mother and father understand one another better. I wrote this family conversation starters book for kids to help you get to know your kids. As a parent to 4 kids, I can verify that the rumors are true. Time flies, kids grow up too fast. Embrace this time by spending a few minutes at the dinner table learning about one another in a fun and creative way. So much can be learned about each other by just asking questions. 200 Conversation Starters for Kids and Parents : Put your phone down and get to know your family. Learn hat to talk about and how to create connection, conversation and community. This is a must have parenting book for families. My hope is that this fun family activity becomes a habit and that the relationships and bond between each member grows, all thru conversations and questions.

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • An award-winning guide to the sometimes erratic and confusing behavior of teenage girls that explains what’s going on, prepares parents for what’s to come, and lets them know when it’s time to worry. Look for Under Pressure, the companion guide to coping with stress and anxiety among girls, available now. In this sane, highly engaging, and informed guide for parents of daughters, Dr. Damour draws on decades of experience and the latest research to reveal the seven distinct—and absolutely normal—developmental transitions that turn girls into grown-ups, including Parting with Childhood, Contending with Adult Authority, Entering the Romantic World, and Caring for Herself. Providing realistic scenarios and welcome advice on how to engage daughters in smart, constructive ways, Untangled gives parents a broad framework for understanding their daughters while addressing their most common questions, including • My thirteen-year-old rolls her eyes when I try to talk to her, and only does it more when I get angry with her about it. How should I respond? • Do I tell my teen daughter that I’m checking her phone? • My daughter suffers from test anxiety. What can I do to help her? • Where’s the line between healthy eating and having an eating disorder? • My teenage daughter wants to know why I’m against pot when it’s legal in some states. What should I say? • My daughter’s friend is cutting herself. Do I call the girl’s mother to let her know? Perhaps most important, Untangled helps mothers and fathers understand, connect, and grow with their daughters. When parents know what makes their daughter tick, they can embrace and enjoy the challenge of raising a healthy, happy young woman. BOOKS FOR A BETTER LIFE AWARD WINNER “Finally, there’s some good news for puzzled parents of adolescent girls, and psychologist Lisa Damour is the bearer of that happy news. [Untangled] is the most down-to-earth, readable parenting book I’ve come across in a long time.”—The Washington Post “Anna Freud wrote in 1958, ‘There are few situations in life which are more difficult to cope with than an adolescent son or daughter during the attempt to liberate themselves.’ In the intervening decades, the transition doesn’t appear to have gotten any easier which makes Untangled such a welcome new resource.”—The Boston Globe