How Not To End Up With The Wrong Man

A collection of essays extended from The New York Times' most-read article of 2016. Anyone we might marry could, of course, be a little bit wrong for us. We don’t expect bliss every day. The fault isn’t entirely our own; it has to do with the devilish truth that anyone we’re liable to meet is going to be rather wrong, in some fascinating way or another, because this is simply what all humans happen to be – including, sadly, ourselves. This collection of essays proposes that we don’t need perfection to be happy. So long as we enter our relationships in the right spirit, we have every chance of coping well enough with, and even delighting in, the inevitable and distinctive wrongness that lies in ourselves and our beloveds.

As a single woman, are you experiencing painful disappointments, rejections, setbacks, and stagnancy in your courtship relationships? In How Not to End Up With the Wrong Man, author Judith. C. Awusah offers a guide for Christian, single women who have been unfortunate in love, particularly singles who are afflicted by the continuous problem of courting the wrong kinds of men. How Not to End Up With the Wrong Man discusses the pressures placed on single women by society and churches, and it provides practical insights into how to think about the issue and then how to live a victorious life as a single woman. Awusah exposes some of the spiritual, behavioral, and physical causes of bad relationships that could result in cyclical courtship relationship problems. Most importantly, she shows the single woman how to stop the constant barrage of the bad type of men coming her way, while assisting her to make room and prepare for the right man who will provide a fulfilling and stable relationship, and eventual marriage. Filled with practical, common-sense advice and biblical instruction in regard to dating relationships, How Not to End Up With the Wrong Man helps women guard against making some of the more common errors that lead to broken relationships.

As a single woman, are you experiencing painful disappointments, rejections, setbacks, and stagnancy in your courtship relationships? In How Not to End Up With the Wrong Man, author Judith. C. Awusah offers a guide for Christian, single women who have been unfortunate in love, particularly singles who are afflicted by the continuous problem of courting the wrong kinds of men. How Not to End Up With the Wrong Man discusses the pressures placed on single women by society and churches, and it provides practical insights into how to think about the issue and then how to live a victorious life as a single woman. Awusah exposes some of the spiritual, behavioral, and physical causes of bad relationships that could result in cyclical courtship relationship problems. Most importantly, she shows the single woman how to stop the constant barrage of the bad type of men coming her way, while assisting her to make room and prepare for the right man who will provide a fulfilling and stable relationship, and eventual marriage. Filled with practical, common-sense advice and biblical instruction in regard to dating relationships, How Not to End Up With the Wrong Man helps women guard against making some of the more common errors that lead to broken relationships.

Guides readers to listen to their instincts, pay attention to the warning signs, and if necessary get out before saying "I do."

For every woman who wants to know what her man is thinking. Internationally syndicated radio superhost and columnist, controversial psycho-therapist, and author of the break-out New York Times bestsellers How Could You Do That?! and Ten Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives, Dr. Laura Schlessinger is back with Ten Stupid Things Men Do to Mess Up Their Lives. In ten vital, compelling chapters, Dr. Laura speaks her mind on: Stupid Chivalry By getting involved with the wrong woman (weak, flaky, damaged, needy, desperate, stupid, untrustworthy, immature, etc.) you think that your love will save/transform her. Stupid Independence Unwilling to admit "need" for bonding and intimacy, you hide in excesses of work, play, drink, drugs, porn, and meaningless sex. Stupid Ambition Unable to comfortably and proudly accept your inherent importance to society and family as husband and father, you bow to the false idols of money, toys, power, and status. Stupid Strength Uncomfortable with feeling weak, vulnerable, useless, powerless, or rejected, you use intimidation, force, or passive-aggressiveness to regain control. Stupid Sex Taking an attraction, opportunity, or erection as a "sign," you measure your masculinity and power by sexual conquests, infidelities, and orgasms. Stupid Matrimony Lacking a mature sense of the purpose, meaning, or value of marriage, you realize too late you've gone down the aisle with the wrong woman for the wrong reasons and feel helpless to "fix it." Stupid Husbanding Thinking that marriage is the honorable discharge from loving courtship, you continue to live as though you were single and your "mommy-wife" will take care of everything else. Stupid Parenting Believing that only women/mothers nurture children, you withdraw from hands-on parenting to assert your masculine importance, missing out on the true "soul food" of a child's hug. Stupid Boyishness Having not yet worked out a comfortable emotional and social understanding with your mother, you form relationships with women that become geared to avenge, resolve, or protect you from your ties to Mommy. Stupid Machismo Understanding the true and meaningful difference between being male and a man, you can become a man.

A different kind of dating book, She's Got the Wrong Guy not only details why these are the wrong guys, but also helps single Christian women better understand why they "settle" for less than God intends. Instead, they will be encouraged to put their hope and happiness in Jesus, not marriage

Tackling relationships, career, and family issues, John Kim, LMFT, thinks of himself as a life-styledesigner, not a therapist. His radical new approach, that he sometimes calls “self-help in a shot glass” is easy, real, and to the point. He helps people make changes to their lives so that personal growth happens organically, just by living. Let’s face it, therapy is a luxury. Few of us have the time or money to devote to going to an office every week. With anecdotes illustrating principles in action (in relatable and sometimes irreverent fashion) and stand-alone practices and exercises, Kim gives readers the tools and directions to focus on what's right with them instead of what's wrong. When John Kim was going through the end of a relationship, he began blogging as The Angry Therapist, documenting his personal journey post-divorce. Traditional therapists avoid transparency, but Kim preferred the language of "me too" as opposed to "you should." He blogged about his own shortcomings, revelations, views on relationships, and the world. He spoke a different therapeutic language —open, raw, and at times subversive — and people responded. The Angry Therapist blog, that inspired this book, has been featured in The Atlantic Monthly and on NPR.

Low self-esteem is a problem that plagues many people. Especially women. They repeatedly make wrong choices in their lives as well as in men and end up in relationships that are not only unhealthy but also detrimental to their overall well-being. They just don't think they deserve better. They don't think they can do better. But they can. You Can Do Better: How to Improve Your Self-Esteem, Stop Dating the Wrong Men and Start Living the Life You Deserve is the book for the person who wants to have a better life and better relationships. If you're suffering because of low self-esteem, you just have to realize that you can do better and that you deserve better. This book can help.