Infidelity In Marriage A Complete Self Help Guide To Rebuild Relationship Recover From Pain

Is your partner cheating in your marriage? There is nothing more painful than the pain that the unfaithful can bring. The betrayal, the anger, and the sickening jealousy is eating you up even in your waking hours. You need help and you need it fast. This book offers the help you need: o How to face the consequences of infidelity o How to forgive and forget after infidelity o How to rebuild trust o How to move forward after the pains

Buy the Paperback version of this Book and get the Kindle Book for FREE !!! Do you know that infidelity can affect anyone directly or indirectly? Yes, it can. Even the couples we consider perfect can be affected by cheating, either emotionally, or physical. Do you also know that cheating does not have to be physical? A spouse can cheat emotionally and think that it does not affect his/her relationship. Regardless of how a person cheats, infidelity has tough consequences. Typically, no one is prepared for an infidelity case especially when it affects them directly. Who could ever think that the person they love and entrust their hearts with can cheat on them? In fact, infidelity catches people so unaware that they hardly know how to deal with it. The wounds run so deep, we consider healing as a possibility. However, the good news is, you can heal from any form of infidelity. It does not matter how long the cheating spouse has had the affair. Neither does it matter the type of infidelity that has been or is taking place or the number of people involved. With time, dedication, and patience, one can learn how to get past the pain. Better still, infidelity does not have to break the relationship you have worked so hard to build. It is possible to heal together and move on. In fact, your relationship might become better once you have survived the storm. Normally, we assume that the cheating partner is just selfish and inconsiderate. But once you pay attention to them, you may realize that they are hurting as much as the cheated-on person. There might be a lot of conflict going on within them and they need help as much as anyone else. No matter how badly you are hurt, there is a chance for recovery. This book is designed to help the betrayed spouse and the person who had an affair. It will also help a person who has not yet experienced the wrath of infidelity to understand the cause, effect, and intensity of cheating. In this book you will learn how to rebuild trust after an incidence of infidelity. To that end, do you feel weighed down by that infidelity? And would want to recover from the heartache and betrayal? Does that affair which you or your spouse had years ago still affect the quality of your life and relationship today? Would you like to understand the causes and effects of infidelity in a clearer way so that you build a better relationship with our partner? This is the book for you. We have deliberately used a simple language and relatable incidences to help you develop greater awareness of what is happening in your life and relationships. You will learn everything including how to heal yourself to how you can help a partner to rebuild a relationship. Here is a sneak peek of what you will take away; ► The main causes of cheating and how a man and a woman view cheating ► The art of understanding and forgiving a spouse. Rebuilding the emotional connection between you and your spouse ► Robust strategies for repairing the hurt and seemingly irreparable relationship. ► The need for sex and sexual intimacy in repairing a relationship that is hurt because of an affair ► And much more Gain control of your emotions. Heal yourself wholesomely and enjoy a more rewarding for enjoying a more rewarding fulfilling personal, relational, marriage, professional, and social life. Download now Healing From Infidelity. This Guide is for both men

"One of the foremost relationship experts at work today applies the insights of science toward understanding the real meaning of trust between a couple. He decodes the "why" behind betrayal and shows how partners can avoid or recover from unfaithfulness and maintain a loving relationship.Dr. John Gottman, the country's pre-eminent researcher on marriage, is famous for his Love Lab at the University of Washington in Seattle where he deciphers the mysteries of human relationships through scientific research. His thirty-five years of exploration have earned him numerous major awards, including from the National Institute of Mental Health, the American Psychological Association, and the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Now, Dr. Gottman offers surprising findings and advice on the characteristic that is at the heart of all relationships: Trust. Dr. Gottman has developed a formula that precisely calculates any couple's loyalty level. The results determine a relationship's likely future, including the potential for one or both partners to stray. A Love You Can Trust shows couples how to bolster their trust level and avoid what Dr. Gottman calls the "Roach Motel for Lovers." He describes how the outcome of--"sliding door moments," small pivotal points between a couple, can lead either to more emotional connection or to discontent. He suggests a new approach to handling adultery and reveals the varied and unexpected non-sexual ways that couples often betray each other. A Love You Can Trust guides couples through an empirically tested, trust-building program that will let them repair and maintain a long-term, intimate, and romantic relationship"--

A step-by-step approach to making your marriage loving again.

A Guide to Rebuilding Trust and Intimacy It's devastating to discover that the person you trust the most has betrayed you. You'll be facing some hard questions after learning of your partner's infidelity. You may choose to rebuild your relationship, or you may decide to move on. Whatever the right decision is for you, this book will help you figure out why your partner betrayed you and decide whether you can remain in your relationship. It will also show you new ways to relate that can help you and your partner become a lasting, loving, and committed couple. You'll start by taking a look at the phenomenon of infidelity and the three types of intimacy: self-intimacy, conflict intimacy, and affection intimacy. Then you'll learn about the three kinds of infidelity—those of fear, of loneliness, and of anger—and what each reveals about your relationship. Then it's on to practical exercises that can heal emotional wounds and enable you to recover your ability to trust. Even if you decide not to remain with your current partner, the book will help you make wise relationship choices to "affair-proof" your future relationship.

"Little compares to the devastation people feel upon discovering their spouse has been unfaithful. Shocked, devastated and overwhelmed, couples often hit stalemates as they struggle to get past intense emotional pain, mistrust, resentment and never-ending arguments about the betrayal. Based on over three decades of experience helping couples recover from betrayal and save their marriages, Weiner-Davis offers a step-by-step program to help readers: - Deal with traumatic feelings after the discovery - Respond to questions about the affair - Talk about intense emotions without arguing - End the affair - Offer apologies that are sincere and healing - Overcome flashbacks and painful memories - Rebuild trust and accountability - Make their marriage stronger than before the affair - Find forgiveness - Reconnect sexually This book is filled with case vignettes of couples whose lives were shattered by betrayal but have eventually recovered and thrived."--Publisher's description.

One of the world’s leading experts on infidelity provides a step-by-step guide through the process of infidelity—from suspicion and revelation to healing, and provides profound, practical guidance to prevent infidelity and, if it happens, recover and heal from it. You’re right to be cautious when you hear these words: “I’m telling you, we’re just friends.” Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.

“Full of juicy, concrete advice to heal from an affair.” —Esther Perel, MA, LMFT, New York Times bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and The State of Affairs From a clinical psychologist who served as a clinical supervisor in the Department of Psychology at Yale University, received the CPA’s award for Distinguished Contribution to the Practice of Psychology, and has treated couples and trained therapists for over four decades, this newly updated, award-winning book provides concrete, proven strategies for those who seek to survive their partner’s infidelity and to rebuild the relationship after an affair. There is nothing quite like the devastation caused when a partner has been unfaithful. Hurt partners often experience a profound shattering of their familiar and valued sense of self and fall into a depression that can last for years. For the relationship, infidelity is often a death blow. This new third edition of After the Affair, with more than 600,000 copies sold, helps guide both hurt and unfaithful partners through three stages of healing: normalizing the crisis, deciding whether to recommit to their partner, and rekindling trust and sexual intimacy. It includes a new section in which patients ask questions not addressed in previous editions, and the author provides concrete strategies for earning trust and forgiveness.