Male Chastity Keyholder Guide

A non-threatening, female-friendly introduction to the topic of male chastity, ideal for nervous keyholders or as a love-offering from a would-be-chastened male.

There is a lot of variety in the world of fetish and kink, with limitless possibilities for creativity in sensual play. Many people unfamiliar with this lifestyle immediately focus on the more obvious or superficial aspects, like honorific nicknames or corsets and leather boots. But for people who participate in fetishes as a lifestyle, the practices and games are an essential part of their relationship, with its own set of rules and standards. One particularly interesting subculture within the world of kink is that of the female keyholder and her chastised male subordinate. The phrase "male chastity" probably immediate spooks some men, or excites others (whether they are willing to admit it or not). Either attitude is amusing to the sophisticated woman with a predilection for domination and control. For submissive men, there are many benefits to a male chastity arrangement. The calculating domme will use all of her feminine charms to her advantage, establishing a system of rules meant to keep her man under lock and key. Literally. The popularity of male chastity devices has soared in recent years, and although this be taboo, it's something many people talk about behind closed doors. Conveniently hidden under clothes, male chastity devices provide necessary restriction for the man and allowing his dominant complete control over his orgasms. These devices are a valuable tool for the modern dominant woman, and excellent for contemporary "tease and denial" games. Exploring male chastity can be a fun new game for adventurous couples, or a complete long-term lifestyle for kinky pairs. Whatever the relationship type, employing a male chastity device sends a clear message: he's on lockdown, and she holds the key.

A complete guide to male chastity. If you are new to male chastity or have been practicing it for years, this book will guide you to a happier sex life. Everything you ever wanted to know about how to sexually tease and torment your partner. How to talk "dirty" to him. What to say, when and how to say it, even if you are shy or embarrassed. Keeping him aroused when he is away. It's all here.Has your partner been pushing you to lock his manhood up in a chastity device? Are you afraid you won't live up to his expectations? Are you too shy, embarrassed, or uncomfortable talking "dirty" to him in bed (or any other time)? Being a KeyHolder should not be terrifying for any woman. Armed with the information in this handbook, you can become an expert at playing the chastity game. Once you know how to play, he won't stand chance. This guide will make it easy for any woman to become a KeyHolder for her partner, or any other man, for that matter.

CHASTITY | The Guide to Male Chastity is the latest book in Marisa Rudder's Female Led Relationship Series. This amazing Chastity book will change your life. Imagine your man treating you like a Queen and getting more pleasure out of pleasuring you than receiving pleasure himself. Imagine your man doing whatever you tell him without complaining. Imagine your man gladly doing the housework, laundry, grocery shopping, cooking, dishes and more? With the techniques and training guidelines in my book, you can have such a man. In fact, you may already be living with a man who has the potential to become this perfect man. A modern Love and Obey Female Led Relationship or marriage includes male chastity and orgasm control. The wife decides when her husband is allowed to orgasm. The wife is in charge and the husband submits to her loving female authority. Her man is completely obedient. Women will learn how to use their feminine power to control their man's sexuality. Women will learn how to tame and train a man. Men will learn the value of submitting to loving female authority. Men will become more loving, devoted and romantic. Women will take charge of the relationship or marriage and their men will become obedient. The woman's authority and sexuality are worshiped by their man. At Love and Obey, we believe that whoever controls the pussy makes the rules. Pussy denial is used to guide your husband's behavior and this makes your Female Led Relationship more permanent. Men will worship us as goddesses and serve us as queens and obey us as their mistresses. Your Love and Obey Female Led Lifestyle, including Male Chastity, is the future of relationships and marriages. This book is essential reading for women interested in a loving female led relationship and men interested in loving, obeying and serving a superior female.

Georgia Ivey Green has created one of the best, most insightful books of its kind. 'Tips & Tricks For Keyholders' makes being a “woman in charge” so easy, you will wonder why you never put your man in chastity before. It is the perfect companion to 'A KeyHolder's Handbook.'This book will not only help you understand your partner, but will teach you how to make the most of a good thing. You will learn how to use his own fantasies, to talk to him, to get him to do just about anything you want him to, simply by applying the principles in this book. Her previous book 'A KeyHolder's Handbook' gave you all the basics you need to know about keeping him happy and horny. This book is an extension of that. In it you will find more tips about getting to know his fantasies and how to use them. How to get into his head. How to get him to do more for you. And you will learn many of the things your man will never tell you, that you really need to know, and how to find out what those things are.

Everything you need to know in one place about male chastity in the 21st centuryInterest in male chastity has exploded in recent years with growing numbers of everyday men wishing to be placed in chastity devices and to hand over control of all aspects of their sex lives to an intimate partner-but it's difficult to find practical, useful information about male chastity.There are few comprehensive books on the topic. On the Internet most of the male chastity information available is chastity device marketing copy, porn, sex-workers offering sex services, and fantasy stories with little basis in reality. In this new and comprehensive guide to male chastity, you'll find practical information on how to approach male chastity in a way for both partners to get the most pleasure and intimacy from this popular style for intimate physical relationships. Written by an experienced chastity warrior who began his journey into the world of male chastity with ninety days locked in a chastity device, J. K. Spenser helps you explore the ins and outs of choosing the chastity device right for you, talking about male chastity with your partner, and what physical, mental, and emotional changes you may encounter along the way in your chastity journey.As well as giving you all you need to know about how to make your life in male chastity happy, safe as possible, and rewarding, A Hitchhiker's Guide to Male Chastity provides an up to date, 360-degree view of modern male chastity practices, issues faced both by men who wish to be placed in chastity device and their keyholding partners, along with a comprehensive discussion of the related sexual topics-such as female led relationships, accepting control of your man's sex life, how to make sure as a keyholder that your needs get met, and how putting your man in chastity can positively impact and enrich your relationship. Whether experienced or not, get the low down on how male chastity works.Find out how male chastity can spice up a relationship and improve the sex lives of both partners.Take precautions to stay healthy.Discover how to choose the chastity device right for you the first time.Common male chastity myths-and why they're wrong.A complete section devoted to answering the common questions spouses and partners have when they are asked to place their men in chastity and become chastity keyholders.Learn what a keyholder does and how to become a good one. Thanks to the practical experience and unabashed honesty J. K. Spenser offers, understanding male chastity doesn't have to complicated-or a taboo topic. This book makes it easier than ever to get started on the mesmerizing road to chastity bliss while still keeping your head on straight so that you don't drive yourself or your partner to insanity!

DescriptionThe Ultimate Guide To Tease & Denial is more than just about what to do when you want to tease your guy sexually. It's about taking control of your sex-life and getting what you want from it. There is a step-by-step guide that will walk you through your first month of teasing so that you can get used to doing those things you need to do to make things better. A must read for chastity enthusiasts.Tease and denial has never been so simple. Whether you want to utilize chastity in your relationship or not, makes no difference in a modern, healthy relationship. Reading this book will give you insights into your partner's motivations like nothing before. You can take control of what you want and leave the rest to him."The Ultimate Guide to Tease & Denial is a refreshing outlook on the sexual aspect of female domination that many women find cumbersome. I remember the days when I thought being a tease was a bad thing but Mistress Ivey has completely changed my perspective with her book. She empowers women by teaching not only how to use our inherent sexual charm to mold men's behavior but why it is important to release that inner naughty girl that many of us were taught to hide. This book has opened so many new channels of thought for me as it clearly points out how vital it is to express my love for my partner by using my feminine charms to seduce him every day and in many exciting ways while keeping him hung up and thirsty for more."Te-Erika "Queenie" Patterson (Publisher)ConquerHim.ComCelebrating The Beauty of Female Led Relationships

Author Key Barrett started out writing a journal for chastity. He decided that he wanted to be locked up in chastity for seven days in order to better understand the motivation behind chastity and the emotional aspects so he could write about it with greater understanding in both his fiction and nonfiction. So he spoke with his wife and she agreed to let him go seven days in chastity with her holding the key, only unlocking him if he needed it for safety reasons, to make sure everything is working properly, or if she had sexual interest in freeing him. What started as a simple one week journal quickly blossomed into something else entirely. By the third day he was feeling butterflies just when his wife touched his hand. By day four, she noticed he was much more engaged in their household and being an active and proactive partner. What started as a week for him quickly became two weeks for them both to journal. Through chastity and communication, they identified a sexual trade-off that existed in their marriage, a 'barter system' wherein every action he engaged in had an undercurrent of sexual pressure, a literal tat-for-tit. Freed from it through a chastity device, they were able to enjoy each other on a more meaningful and trusting level. And in lowering the quantity of sex, they raised the quality. This book takes what they learned, plus surveys and research derived from male chastity users, and shows couples how they too can end the barter system, increase communication and bring back the courtship phase, butterflies and all. Learn what you can do to improve your marriage, increase intimacy, feel more connected emotionally, and make her daily life easier with a simple, sexy, fun exercise in chastity.