Sex Death And Tantra How Sex Changed My Life After Death

My worst fear happened. My husband of 15 years left our 6 year old daughter downstairs watching ET, kissed me, and left to walk the dog. He never came home. He was hit by a car and was killed. He was 39. Sex, Death and Tantra is the story of my first years as a single, gay, widower, dad, embracing my grief, parenting a grieving child, attending to her educational, social, emotional needs, all while trying to create a wholly new life for myself. Tantra? While intense and wildly pleasurable sex is a part of Tantra, it is not Tantra. Tantra is a set of principles and practices (most of which are not sexual) which transcends the self. For decades I sought a marriage of sex and spirituality yet these practices seemed to exclude gay men. The year prior to Zachary's death, we met Ken and began our study of tantra with him. Ken was a successful psychotherapist who taught tantra to gay men. He had a separate erotic healing practice where he used tantra, eroticism, and sex to help men do profound emotional, psychological healing work. He was a father. He was a husband. He was a sacred whore. Tantra is not an easy path. Zachary and I each dealt with painful psychological and emotional issues as we deepened our spiritual selves, our erotic knowledge and experience. It was also sexy and fun. I got a taste of how sex--highly pleasurable, conscious sex--can be a pathway towards healing, personal growth, and spiritual awakening. Feeling lost and afraid, sitting in the hospital with Zachary's wrecked lifeless body, I called Ken. And we began our journey together. We explored grief--my grief-- using tantra as our foundation. From that day forward, Ken and I met most days at 5AM before my daughter awoke, for tea, meditation, erotic practices, and conversation. I credit him with saving my life after Zachary's sudden death. Sex, Death, and Tantra is not only a story about love and loss, but one of optimism and healing. Reminiscent of Spanbauer's The Man Who Fell In Love WIth The Moon, my story chronicles an uncommon, radical, application of Tantra which transcends gender and orientation. My story is real, raw, erotic, and emotional. While this is not a definitive tantra text, many tantric principles and practices are brought to light.

With the advent of Spiritual Knowledge Men and women are confused about the balance in their life with regard to sex, love and God. Many people are confused about the true definition of the relationship between sexuality and Spirituality. As a result men will feel guilty about having sexual feelings during prayers and fasts. Women are afraid to sleep with their husbands for fears that God will curse them if they had sex during prayers and so on. This kind of thinking can destroy relationships and create separation between couples and eventually discontinuity of the universe.....

Rose Rouse, a journalist, and Suzanne Noble, a serial entrepreneur– created Advantages of Age out of a conversation in a hot tub in 2016. ‘We didn’t like how we were being depicted in the media as we got older.’ Advantages of Age is a social enterprise designed to passionately challenge the prevailing negative stereotypes around ageing. No, we’re not all grandparents, some of us are over 50, single and childless. We don’t wish to be defined by the reductive headlines we see around us. We are writers, filmmakers, singers, press officers, death doulas, psychotherapists and so much more. We are not all retired. We surf, play tennis, lift weights. We have sex, we don’t have sex. We have partners, we don’t have partners. We’re an eclectic bunch. In this collection of essays gathered from seven years of commissioning, AoAers share their thoughts on life, love, sex, death, adventures on their terms, lockdown and everything in between. ‘We hope we’re doing our bit to re-define and re-frame what getting old means.’

The Beginner's Guide to Sex in the Afterlife is the follow-up to David Staume's quirky and popular Beginner's Guide for the Recently Deceased. It assumes, as did his first book, that the reader is dead, and takes the reader on a "tour" of the subject. With humor and intelligence, this guidebook explores the origin, purpose, and potential of sexual energy. It explains how sexual energy moves through our solar system and through us. Readers will also learn how to work with sexual energy for a richer and more fulfilled life, balance their masculine and feminine energies, and improve the quality of their love.

Did you know that tantric sex is NOT all about sex?Or that it could be a path to healing several other areas of your life?What if you could experience full-body orgasms that lasted for hours?Doesn't that sound incredible? The truth is, the strength of your relationship is not forged during the dates you have or how much time you spend together as a couple. A strong, loving bond that can withstand the test of time is built during the most precious and intimate moments you share with your partner. It is built during sex. Having sex should be more than just satisfying your hormonal lust or desires. Sex should be a time when you connect with your partner in a way so deep, you're both brought to the brink of ultimate bliss. Originating in India sometime between 300 and 400 of the Common Era (CE), the concept of tantra can be detected dating back to 2000 BC. Ancient civilizations have long been harnessing the power of this remarkable practice, and the modern world we live in is only now waking up all the glorious possibilities tantric sex can bring. Tantric sex is not a religion. It is a practice and a way of life. It doesn't just teach you the various sex methods you could use for greater pleasure alone. It teaches you how to give and receive the loving energy between a pair of lovers. It teaches you about awakening the internal spirit, the energy of life that flows within us all to connect with your spiritual side, and restore meaning to your life. It reminds us that our bodies are a temple and that within every man and woman, there resides a God and Goddess. Tantric sex is about connecting with your partner so deeply that in that union, you feel like you may have found your soul mate at last. You Will Learn: Tantra's emotional and cultural origins Why tantric sex is better than regular sex How to bring out your partner's sensual side Overcoming the myths to discover the truth How to awaken your body and free your mind The true power of breath and what it can do for your sexual experience How to harness the power of your sexual energy How to transform your sexual energy using your chakras How to manipulate the senses for greater intimacy What the erotic awakening massage can do for you Understanding the universal hum The best tantric sex positions to try today There's more to tantra than meets the sexual eye, and this book aims to help you understand why it should be seen as a way to connect meaningfully with your partner rather than seeing it as nothing more than a way for you to have an orgasm. Embrace tantra fully, and you'll live your life with freedom and passion you never knew before. Tantra doesn't just teach you how to connect with your partner. It teaches you how to connect with your world. Tantra is a practice that benefits both men and women, and we'll provide step-by-step guides about how you can work together with your partner the way you are supposed to. This book is not going to tell you how to do it. It's going to show you how to do it. Are You Ready to Change Your Sexual Experience for the Better? Download Now! Your sexual awakening awaits.

This book is based on the real life lessons of the author. The author is using a Pin Name in order to cover the identities of the people involved for their protection, yet the lessons presented here are important for people to understand, and at times shocking as it goes against standard dogma perpetrated by the religions and indoctrination of society that has taken us away from the spiritual pathways by creating religions to replace the spiritual understandings of our essences.

This book is a guide for the maturing man: complete with route-finder, service areas, scenic highlights and emergency callout advice. It gathers the best wisdom and experience of many men on enjoying your best years to the full, on the skills you need to handle the losses and shipwrecks, and on how to grow through them. It offers insights, inspiration, practical advice and resources for further help.The aim is simple: enjoy life now! The book offers wisdom from the unexpected, like a Wiltshire wood, football, Sufi mystics, car maintenance, and heroic myth. Topics in the book include: Change and renewal. A fresh look at relationships. Work, money - and fulfilment. Tackling health issues. Family Dynamics: ageing parents and lots more. Last Chance Saloon: addictions, anger, depression, alternatives. Dreams, dawns, dying, inspiration. Giving and receiving: friends, groups, communities. Sex: Yes you can! Maturing organically: sustaining your happiness, giving back. The book offers an easy, entertaining read to guide men through this new stage of life.It's also helpful for partners, family and friends who want to understand and support them.To handle new needs and challenges there are self test exercises, and further resource guides.

If you think sexual and spiritual bliss can't be found in today's fast-paced world, you haven't experienced Urban Tantra. Celebrating the 10th anniversary of Urban Tantra, acclaimed sex educator Barbara Carrellas radically updates the ancient practice of Tantra for modern sexual explorers desiring to discover new frontiers. With a juicy mix of erotic how-to and heart-centered spiritual wisdom, this updated edition includes a brand-new introduction, up-to-date references and resources, a new take on the possibilities and responsibilities of Tantra in today’s world, plus new and cutting-edge information to reach an expanded community—added information on multi-partner play, more intersections for Tantra and BDSM, practices for asexuals and aromantics, expanded practices for trans and gender nonconforming people, and more. With more than one hundred easy-to-follow techniques for expanded orgasmic states and solo and partner play (as well as more adventurous practices), this in-depth guide reveals the delicious worlds of ecstasy available to all, no matter one's gender, sexual preference, or erotic tastes. Urban Tantra expands the notions of pleasure and opens new heights of intimacy and sexual fulfillment.