101 Questions To Ask Your Potential Muslim Spouse

101 Questions to ask your potential Muslim spouseAs we all know for Muslims marriage is a pretty big deal! But, when it comes to looking for a spouse there are so many questions we need to ask (sometimes in a 'short' space of time).From are they of the same culture? To what sect and for some of us, will you be the only wife? Regardless of whether you are on a time limit or not this book seeks to collate all the questions we think of and forget to ask our potential Muslim spouse.

This book consists of 100+ tried and tested hugely significant compatibility questions that everyone needs to ask their future spouse prior to getting married to them. One practical way of doing this is by way of what I call Marriage Meetings.Introducing: Marriage MeetingsA marriage meeting is where your potential partner and yourself, plus two additional people get together in order to learn about each other. The questions in this guide will be how you learn about each other without missing anything important. Just as a pilot has a checklist before takeoff you have a checklist before getting married. You don't have to understand how it works, just have faith that it does and should you prevail and still marry this person opposite you then I can promise you that you will have a very high chance of a successful marriage.What's the purpose of a marriage meeting?Most relationships fail gradually. Over time, you learn new things about your partner, some of which are not to your liking and thus negativity and regret starts to build up, eventually leading to the failure of that relationship.Marriage meetings allow you to get all the skeletons/demons out of the closet before any commitment is made.Where should this meeting take place?The marriage meeting should take place somewhere public. It is absolutely important that you are not hidden away and there should be a safe and comfortable way for one party to leave should they choose to. Pick somewhere quiet like a coffee shop, a park etc, somewhere populated but not too busy as to cause distraction or inconvenience.Who will attend?Both of you should bring one additional person. Let's call them your "check-mate"; the mate who keeps you in check! This is a responsible person who will have a level head and look out for your best interests. Choose someone who will not hesitate to scrutinise the other person, ask the questions maybe you will shy away from and ensure your are being the real you. This person must be your senior though not necessarily age wise. This could be a colleague, a boss, a family friend, a senior family member or maybe someone of high standing from within your community. The person you bring must be someone you trust and you must listen to them when they bring up concerns. They must absolutely not be a yes man who will just go along with what you say otherwise they are useless to you.Marriage Meetings are not datesThese meetings are not to be confused with dates. During dates, one tends to woo and aim to please their potential partner in what I refer to the human equivalent of the mating dance. But in marriage meetings, one should set out to ask the questions so as to get a clear picture of their potential partner's stance in comparison to your own.Why Marriage Meetings work and ConclusionI have done this personally and it has turned out quite awesome. To me, this is the practical method of getting married. Some may not agree with my methodology and to them, I wish good luck. I am not here to say things that people want to hear but to make you happy in the long term. I call it tough love.The reason Marriage Meetings work is because you have no commitment with your potential spouse. In most modern relationship people want to ask these questions but they don't due to fear of rejection or a backlash. If your potential spouse is hesitant to follow this guide and methodology then perhaps they're not sincere about you or marriage. Should you come up with a question of your own that I have not covered, ask it and let me know too so I can add it to this guide. Marriage is a life commitment and having a sudden crush is not good enough to sustain it; A marriage must go deeper than that.Continue inside the Book: How the marriage guide came into being.....How to ask these questions and the 100+ Questions to Ask Each Other Before Getting Married.

How do you decide whether someone is the right person for you? What sort of things should you be discussing with or asking your potential spouse in premarital conversations? You may be feeling apprehensive at the thought of getting married. Or you’ve heard too many Muslim marriage horror stories. Real-life examples of chameleon-like husbands with narcissistic traits. Getting married is one of the most important decisions of your life. Before you embark on your marriage journey, you need answers, so you have clarity and the confidence to find a compatible husband. In this book, you will have access to a carefully researched list of 130 open-ended questions and conversation starters to ask a potential spouse to find out if you are compatible.

In this third edition, you will find questions geared toward fostering thought provoking and challenging conversations between you and your potential spouse. You will understand the process of preparing for marriage by exploring your personal beliefs and values as well as the qualities you seek in a spouse. You will also explore your views on profession, education, Islam, culture, fiances, children, etc. to gain a deeper understanding of one another and to determine your compatibility. Before the Wedding will pave the way for you to sharpen your communication skills and gain valuable insights that will boost your confidence in making the best decision for marriage.

Whenever I have held a Muslim marriage masterclass, my inbox has been flooded with questions from single Muslimahs. Some women feel scared at the thought of getting married. Others have heard too many Muslim marriage horror stories and are seriously considering staying single. Getting married is one of the most important decisions of your life. So, before you embark on your marriage journey, you need answers, so you have clarity and the confidence to find a compatible husband. Inshallah, a God-conscious husband who will compliment you, not complete you. This Ebook provides you with answers to the pre-marriage questions you have. Questions include: * Once I get married, will I lose my freedom? * What are the red flags I should look for? * What are the halal ways of finding a prospective partner? * How can I get to know someone without dating? * When should I ask difficult questions about finances, in-laws, polygamy, etc.? * How do I know if he is ‘The One’?

This book is especially written for Muslims that desire to come close to Allah and rectify or stabilize their marriage for a higher purpose. Consider it a guide or a Muslim marriage "self-help book" that you'll keep referring to from time-to-time. With knowledge, some effort and good intentions, you can rid an exhausting, emotionless marriage and welcome the days where your spouse is a garment, a cover, a comfort, a protection, a pain-in-the-butt sometimes, and yet again, a comfort! Muslim Marriage 101 focuses on practical solutions while offering insight into possible issues and the root cause(s) of why things have become the way they are in your marriage. Expect to experience some "aha moments" as you learn the "what, why and hows" of Muslim marriages in the 21st century - within the context of Quran and Sunnah.

BONUS10 ways to enhance your sexual chemistry on daily basis to trigger 100% Affection in marriage This 101 Questions book is the ideal advice for couples considering a lifetime commitment. It's not only about choosing out rings and organizing weddings; it's about creating a strong foundation for your future together. (Before you say "I live you too)," consider crucial concerns ranging from family relationships to financial preparation, from personal aspirations to shared beliefs. This book gives a detailed practical method to knowing yourself and your spouse. It offers thought-provoking concerns followed by thoughtful analysis, borrowing from psychology, relationship studies, and holistic ideas. In the phases of love, these questions will develop communication, trust, and mutual understanding. Find good and bad elements, ask the hard questions, and obtain the practical assistance you need to make the best educated choice regarding your involvement. Make this book your amusing and knowledgeable companion on the journey to married love! Grab your copy now BEFORE you take the next step in your relationship.