A Psychoanalytic Reflection On Narcissistic Parenthood And Its Ramifications

A Psychoanalytic Reflection on Narcissistic Parenthood and its Ramifications: The Forgotten Echo proposes a new perspective on narcissism, focusing on its destructive impact within relationships. Hila Yahalom discusses the patterns and ramifications of traumatizing upbringing by narcissistic parents, exploring the resulting development of a defensive-behavioral pattern and personality structures in the child which constitutes a mirror image of narcissism. Yahalom assesses a wide range of psychoanalytic theories in presenting a broad outlook on narcissism, its roots, and the manner by which pathological narcissism may manifest in interpersonal relationships as ‘narcissistic abuse’. This book considers the narcissist’s perverted occupation of the psychic space of others, with both participants usually blind to the phenomenon – a blindness that is reenacted in therapy, affecting its course. This book contains clinical vignettes from the author’s work as well as examples from the life stories of Heinz Kohut (Mr. Z), Franz Kafka, and Maria Callas. A Psychoanalytic Reflection on Narcissistic Parenthood and its Ramifications: The Forgotten Echo will be of great interest to psychoanalysts and other clinicians working with narcissism, parenthood, and dysfunctional family relationships.

The past two decades of psychoanalytic discourse have witnessed a marked transformation in the way we think about women and gender. The assignment of gender carries with it a host of assumptions, yet without it we can feel lost in a void, unmoored from the world of rationality, stability and meaning. The feminist analytic thinkers whose work is collected here confront the meaning established by the assignment of gender and the uncertainty created by its absence. The contributions brought together in Psychoanalytic Reflections on a Gender-free Case address a cross-section of significant issues that have both chronicled and facilitated the changes in feminist psychoanalysis since the mid 1980s. Difficult issues which have previously been ignored (such as the pregnancy of the therapist or sexual abuse regarded as more than a fantasy) are considered first. The book goes on to address family perspectives as they interact and shape the child’s experience of growing up male or female. Other topics covered are the authority of personal agency as influenced by the language and theory of patriarchy, male-centred concepts that consistently define women as inferior, and the concept of gender as being co-constructed within a relationship. The gender-free case presented here will fascinate all psychoanalysts interested in exploring ways of grappling with the elusive nature of gender, as well as those studying gender studies.

Psychoanalytic Work with Children in Hospital presents the experiences of a psychoanalyst working within a hospital paediatric department. It explores the possibilities for applying psychoanalytic theory when working with children in hospital and how it can be extended to include parents, caregivers, health care staff and volunteers. Each chapter of the book addresses an issue or area of professional experience that presented Franco D’Alberton with clinical or technical questions, outlining the core concern and then exploring his attempt to provide answers to these questions. This volume presents many possible applications of psychoanalytic theory in a paediatric hospital, encompassing issues encountered by health care staff and volunteers as well as by parents and their hospitalized children, such as physical pain, meetings and information sharing and group settings. It also describes therapeutic interventions directed towards both children and parents. This book will be key reading for child and adolescent psychoanalysts, psychotherapists, and clinical psychologists in practice and in training. It will also interest clinicians seeking to understand how psychoanalytic work can be applied in hospital and health care settings.

Do you want to learn how to survive the hell of a narcissistic family, overcome toxic parents' hurtful legacy, and reclaim your emotional autonomy? If yes, then keep reading! Narcissistic Personality Disorder is not a mental illness or disease. It is a personality disorder characterized by self-centeredness, lack of empathy for others, and an exaggerated sense of one's own importance. People with NPD tend to be extremely competitive, are exploitative of others in their personal lives and the workplace, and maybe envious of others or believe that others are envious of them. Children of narcissistic parents often grow up depressed, with low self-esteem, and feel unworthy and unloved. Narcissistic parents brainwash their children with love and attention, but they constantly put their children down, belittle them and oppress them. The reality is that narcissists effectively deny a child's entitlement to a mother's affections, her approval, her appreciation of her child as well as her love. This guide will show you a set of clinical tools and psychological techniques that will empower you to take back control of your life. It will help you understand narcissistic parents better, how to stand up to them, and set some boundaries in your relationship with them. You will be able to learn how to resist the manipulation tactics of a narcissistic parent and be more assertive. Also, it will help you cope with feelings of worthlessness that come from being raised by a narcissist who is always putting you down. ★★★This book covers the following topics:★★★ Psychological Abuse Becoming Aware How to Fortify Your "Self”? Growth Strategies - Empathy Simple Tips and Tricks Narcissist and Adult Children Narcissistic Passive-Aggressiveness Move Out from A Toxic Environment ...And much more! Ready to get started? Click the BUY NOW button!

Originally published in 1983, Reflections on Self Psychology records the development of a powerful initiative to alter psychoanalytic theory and practice, and an evaluative questioning of this initiative. It presents a dialogue that developed at the Boston Symposium of 1980 between vigorous proponents of self psychology, equally energetic critics, and many participants between these polar positions. This book attempts to capture within its pages not only the content of what was presented, explored, and evaluated in Boston, but also a sense of the people, about 1,000 strong, who exchanged their ideas on and off the podium – and the remarkable spirit of open inquiry that invigorated these proceedings. The book, as was the meeting, is organized to explore four subjects: the development of the self: infant research; the implications of self psychology for psychoanalytic practice; self psychology and psychotherapy; and the implications of self psychology for psychoanalytic theory. The final section of the book is devoted to an essay by Heinz Kohut that provides an integrated response to the issues and criticisms raised in the course of the symposium. This essay while based on extemporaneous responses by Kohut during different phases of the meeting, is, in its written version, a cohesive, carefully revised, and edited statement prepared in the mellowing period following the meeting and before Kohut’s untimely death.

This book examines emerging trends in contemporary psychoanalytic theory and practice, highlighting inter-subjective and relational models of the mind. The author presents vivid and extended clinical vignettes that demonstrate the analyst's use of the self in building clinical momentum and continued development. The author highlights the importance of mutuality and recognition in the development of the self, illustrating the impact of family, the larger group context, and the contribution of the analytic encounter. This book is divided into three sections: First, the contribution of family to development, including some relatively neglected topics, such as the importance of fathers in female development, the role of siblings, the experience of 'only' children or singletons in the family, and the impact of the extended family (including grandparents) upon the individual. A second section examines the influence of unconscious group processes upon individual development and functioning, and includes papers that highlight the contribution of group psychotherapy as a form of treatment.

Adoption is a transformational process bringing parenthood to those who long for but cannot bear children and giving stranded children home, family, and their place in the world. But every adoption is preceded and followed by its story and when these stories are told in the offices of psychotherapists we begin to understand the impact of adoption in all its complexity. We learn from parents how their quest to have and raise a child has played out in real life, and what shadows might have fallen between the dream and the reality. And we learn from the children the many ways that being adopted shaped their development, their sense of identity; what went wrong along the way and how we may help. Clinical work with parents and children as well as with adults who were adopted is the focus of Understanding Adoption. Because adoption has become widely practiced, accepted, and accessible, and because it has greatly changed the composition of families, it is a timely subject for study. The authors of this book undertake exploration of this important terrain of loss and connection, and of the fragility and resilience of human bonds.

Have you grown up under the care of a narcissist? Has the experience affected you and your later life to some degree? Do you want to understand more about why this happened? Narcissism is a that was first identified in the Greek myth of Narcissus, who fell in love with his own reflection. It's a story of course and probably not true, but what it did was help to identify a character flaw that exists in many and was probably in existence long before Narcissus saw his reflection. Dealing with a narcissist is a tricky thing to do. They are devious, charming, hateful and loving all at once and when the narcissist is your own mother it can have a devastating effect. In this book, Narcissistic Mother, you will discover what makes such a person tick, why they do the things they do and what you can do to avoid future harm, with chapters that cover: - Narcissism from ancient times to the modern day - How a Narcissistic Personality Disorder is diagnosed - Relationships with narcissists - Mental wellbeing of narcissistic mothers and their children - How to free yourself from a narcissistic parent - The signs of a narcissistic disorder - And lots more... The trick with dealing with a narcissist, as with anything, is to first understand what you are dealing with. Once you know the enemy you are better placed to defeat it and it is no different in these circumstances. The Narcissistic Mother will prepare you and help you gain that understanding so that you can protect yourself and others from the harm that you face.