Building My Marriage Student Handbook

Just as Masters and Johnson were pioneers in the study of human sexuality, so Dr. John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage. As a professor of psychology at the University of Washington and the founder and director of the Seattle Marital and Family Institute, he has studied the habits of married couples in unprecedented detail over the course of many years. His findings, and his heavily attended workshops, have already turned around thousands of faltering marriages. This book is the culmination of his life's work: the seven principles that guide couples on the path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward in their approach, yet profound in their effect, these principles teach partners new and startling strategies for making their marriage work. Gottman helps couples focus on each other, on paying attention to the small day-to-day moments that, strung together, make up the heart and soul of any relationship. Being thoughtful about ordinary matters provides spouses with a solid foundation for resolving conflict when it does occur and finding strategies for living with those issues that cannot be resolved. Packed with questionnaires and exercises whose effectiveness has been proven in Dr. Gottman's workshops, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the result of Dr. John Gottman's many years of closely observing thousands of marriages. This kind of longitudinal research has never been done before. Based on his findings, he has culled seven principles essential to the success of any marriage. Maintain a love map. Foster fondness and admiration. Turn toward instead of away. Accept influence. Solve solvable conflicts. Cope with conflicts you can't resolve. Create shared meaning. Dr. Gottman's unique questionnaires and exercises will guide couples on the road to revitalizing their marriage, or making a strong one even better.

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Over a million copies sold! “An eminently practical guide to an emotionally intelligent—and long-lasting—marriage.”—Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work has revolutionized the way we understand, repair, and strengthen marriages. John Gottman’s unprecedented study of couples over a period of years has allowed him to observe the habits that can make—and break—a marriage. Here is the culmination of that work: the seven principles that guide couples on a path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward yet profound, these principles teach partners new approaches for resolving conflicts, creating new common ground, and achieving greater levels of intimacy. Gottman offers strategies and resources to help couples collaborate more effectively to resolve any problem, whether dealing with issues related to sex, money, religion, work, family, or anything else. Packed with new exercises and the latest research out of the esteemed Gottman Institute, this revised edition of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential.

Previously published as Help Me, I'm Married, MAKING MARRIAGE WORK offers Joyce's insights on how to make a marriage succeed, thrive, and bless the lives of entire families. Joyce shares with married couples how God can transform a marriage. Whether newly wed, happily married, in a marriage crisis, or just in a relationship rut, Joyce's principles will help energize and revitalize a relationship. Discover how to: Take the focus off yourself and your spouse and look to the Lord Unleash powerful truths from God's Word for you and your marriage Understand the opposite sex Overcome roadblocks to a triumphant marriage Live successfully with an insecure person Create peace and order in your heart and in your home. Joyce's practical, how-to advice will guide couples along the path to releasing God's power on their lives, and in their marriage.

Tying the Knot by Rob Green offers soon-to-be-married couples a practical vision of Christ-centered marriage that is realistic, hopeful, and actionable. With homework to help any counselor or couple put crucial lessons into practice, Tying the Knot is a highly relevant premarital counseling book. This eight-session study guides couples through issues like conflict, expectations, communication, finances, and intimacy, showing how each can be successfully resolved with Christ at the center of the marriage. Knowing the stresses and needs of a couple in their season of engagement, Green has helpfully designed the study to require a manageable (and healthy) 60 minutes of at-home work per session, with questions and exercises to build communication and intimacy at the end of each chapter. Tying the Knot also includes an appendix for mentors, making it easy for a married couple, lay leader, or counselor to lead an engaged couple through the book. Field-tested and recommended by multiple counselors in a thriving counseling practice, Tying the Knot has already guided many couples into a stronger and more joyful union. Let this eight-week premarital study reorient your life and marriage around Christ, so you both will experience all the blessings of marriage as God designed it.

Here Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott provide the complete guide to becoming a marriage mentor. They instruct the individuals who guide couples in many different stages of married life through emphasizing working as a team, building rapport, walking in another couple's shoes, and praying together. The book includes three major sections: The Big Picture on Marriage Mentoring, The Marriage Mentoring Triad, and The Essential Skills for Marriage Mentoring, to help churches of any size provide a healthy m

For Singles Only- Are you considering marriage? Do you want to choose the right mate? Do you want a marriage that will last? Read this book first. For Husbands Only- Does your wife seem to be cold and unresponsive to you? Do you wish there was some way you could bring life back into your marriage? Is your wife too critical? Do you wish she was more supportive? For Wives Only- Does it seem that the only thing your husband thinks about is sex? Or, do you wish you could get your husband interested in sex? Do you get sick and tired of him watching TV and never talking to you? Are you about fed up with marriage? Wait! Don't give up yet! There is help between the covers of this book. Marriage was not intended for detachment or to be boring and unfulfilling. When God made us, He was well aware of how we were constructed. Ample provision was made for meeting all our needs, which included our sexual needs. This was to be done within the confines of a loving, committed, relationship--marriage. The contents of this book span from contemplating marriage, to menopause and mid-life crisis, pausing as it tunnels through such issues as choosing the right mate, preserving the honeymoon, spousal abuse, conflict resolution and divorce-proofing your marriage. There are special sections, which speak to and speak for husbands and wives, on most concerns one might face and would like an effective, tactful way to communicate them. When both partners share the information in this book and take it to heart, both can experience a joyful renewal in the relationship or build one that will last. Enjoy! About the Author: Since 2005, Viola has published two other books: Check Yourself, which is a collection of inspirational poetry and Making the Right Choices, which is a collection of evangelistic drama for youth. Her mission in life is to impact her world for eternity through sharing the Word of God. She believes that poetry is a means of capturing the attention of many, because it is easy reading, and it is viewed by many to be an expression of beauty; therefore, it paves the way for presenting truths that may otherwise be rejected. Viola T. Miller and her husband, Billy, reside in their hometown of Luxora, Arkansas, which has a population of about 1,300 and is located in north eastern Arkansas. Both are retired schoolteachers and are parents of two sons, Billy, Jr and Adrian.

Features the full text of an article entitled "Eternal Marriage," by James T. Duke and provided online by John and Jenny Walsh. Discusses the principle of eternal marriage within the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, which entails the belief that marriage is a covenant that a husband and wife make with each other and God.