Deal Breakers

Deciding when to work on a relationship and when to walk away is a skill that can prevent us wasting months and even years of our lives on partners that will never make us truly happy. Once we have learned to identify the deal breaker in a relationship we can empower ourselves to action, and then change and improve our lives. Whereas books like 'He's Just Not That Into You' explored relationship troubles in black and white, 'Deal Breakers' covers all the shades of grey that lie in between - all those areas where relationships can hit an impasse. Some deal breakers are easy to identify - one partner wants marriage, the other doesn't - yet many are more subtle and difficult to pinpoint. Dr Bethany Marshall is a relationships expert. She has identified specific male archetypes and the traits that frustrate and infuriate their partners. Here, for the first time in book form, is advice that can help any woman who is trying too hard to make her relationship work.

The debut of Myron Bolitar, a hotheaded, tenderhearted sports agent and one of the most fascinating and complex heroes in suspense fiction, Deal Breaker is a page-turning classic from Edgar Award–winner and master storyteller Harlan Coben. “One of the most engaging heroes in mystery fiction.”—Dennis Lehane Sports agent Myron Bolitar is poised on the edge of the big time. So is Christian Steele, a rookie quarterback and Myron’s prized client. But when Christian gets a phone call from a former girlfriend—a woman who everyone, including the police, believes is dead—the deal starts to go sour. Trying to unravel the truth about a family’s tragedy, a woman’s secret, and a man’s lies, Myron is up against the dark side of his business—where image and talent make you rich, but the truth can get you killed. “What sets Harlan Coben above the crowd are wit and wicked nonchalance.”—Los Angeles Times

Is he Mr. Right or Mr. Not-on-Your Life? For some women, it’s a moustache. For others, it’s a cheating heart. Whether you’re playing the field or are considering a trip down the aisle, you’ve got to determine whether to stick it out or move on in your pursuit of true love. Find out what your deal breakers are: • You’re on your first date when you notice he’s had four glasses of wine before the entrée arrives. Deal breaker? • You’ve been dating someone special and upon entering his apartment for the first time you notice a book called The Idiot’s Guide to Sex. Deal breaker? • Your long-term boyfriend proposes and presents you with a stunning ring in a Tiffany’s box—and later you find out it’s a cubic zirconium. Deal breaker? • You meet a cute guy at a bar, but the only number he’ll give you is his pager. Deal breaker? • You’re looking forward to a romantic Valentine’s evening with your new beau. He picks you up at seven, and when you get in the car he says, “So, what’s the plan?” Deal breaker? • You’re engaged to a man of another religion and it’s never been an issue in your relationship. One evening when you’re talking about having children, he tells you he expects the children to be raised in his faith. Deal breaker? • One night after a few drinks your date lets you know he once had a passionate affair with a married woman. Deal breaker?

Is he Mr. Right or Mr. Not-on-Your Life? For some women, it’s a moustache. For others, it’s a cheating heart. Whether you’re playing the field or are considering a trip down the aisle, you’ve got to determine whether to stick it out or move on in your pursuit of true love. Find out what your deal breakers are: • You’re on your first date when you notice he’s had four glasses of wine before the entrée arrives. Deal breaker? • You’ve been dating someone special and upon entering his apartment for the first time you notice a book called The Idiot’s Guide to Sex. Deal breaker? • Your long-term boyfriend proposes and presents you with a stunning ring in a Tiffany’s box—and later you find out it’s a cubic zirconium. Deal breaker? • You meet a cute guy at a bar, but the only number he’ll give you is his pager. Deal breaker? • You’re looking forward to a romantic Valentine’s evening with your new beau. He picks you up at seven, and when you get in the car he says, “So, what’s the plan?” Deal breaker? • You’re engaged to a man of another religion and it’s never been an issue in your relationship. One evening when you’re talking about having children, he tells you he expects the children to be raised in his faith. Deal breaker? • One night after a few drinks your date lets you know he once had a passionate affair with a married woman. Deal breaker?

Break Free From Over-Functioning, Over-Delivering, People-Pleasing, and Ignoring Your Own Needs So You Can Finally Live the Life You Deserve! Most of us were never taught how to effectively express our preferences, desires or deal-breakers. Instead, we hide our feelings behind passive-aggressive behavior, deny our own truths, or push our emotions down until we get depressed or so frustrated that we explode, potentially destroying hard-won trust and relationships. The most successful and satisfied people on the planet have one thing in common: the ability to create and communicate clear, healthy boundaries. This ability is, hands down, the biggest game changer when it comes to creating a healthy, happy, self-determined life. In Boundary Boss, psychotherapist Terri Cole reveals a specific set of skills that can help you stop abandoning yourself for the sake of others (without guilt or drama) and get empowered to consciously take control of every aspect of your emotional, spiritual, physical, personal, and professional life. Since becoming a Boundary Boss is a process, Cole also offers actionable strategies, scripts, and techniques that can be used in the moment, whenever you need them. You will learn: • How to recognize when your boundaries have been violated and what to do next • How your unique “Boundary Blueprint” is unconsciously driving your boundary behaviors, and strategies to redesign it • Powerful boundary scripts so in the moment you will know what to say • How to manage “Boundary Destroyers”—including emotional manipulators, narcissists, and other toxic personalities • Where you fall on the spectrum of codependency and how to create healthy, balanced relationships This book is for women who are exhausted from over-giving, overdoing, and even over-feeling. If you’re getting it all done but at the expense of yourself, give yourself the gift of Boundary Boss.

This book offers readers a compassionate and effective strategy for recovery after their partner had cheated: by identifying the three kinds of infidelity; overcoming the pain of betrayal; and learning to rebuild a healthier 'affair-proof' relationship.

Discover the Most Common Dating "Red Flags" that Scare Good Men Away Commitment-ready, relationship-minded men have a low tolerance policy for any factor that might make a woman appear "unequipped" to take on a serious relationship. Just like the goodhearted women who want nothing more than to find the right man to love and someday build a life with, relationship-minded men want desperately to avoid falling in love with someone that could make their life a living hell. Because of this, guys like this are VERY discriminating when assessing a woman's long-term relationship potential. And they won't think twice about dismissing a woman once they realize she's not really "Girlfriend Material", and thus, not worth their time and attention. Relationship-minded men are less likely to waste a woman's time because their time is extremely precious to them. Because they value commitment, relationships, social and family ties very highly, they date with the intention of finding a woman they can someday build a life with. Discover the Hidden Factors Men Use to Determine if a Woman is Worth Dating As a man matures he becomes less trusting of a woman's physical beauty and charm. Instead, when evaluating her long-term relationship potential, he places greater attention on the quality of her personal character (or lack thereof), as well as those things that have a direct or indirect influence upon her character; such as the people, places, and things in her life. After a woman has passed a man's physical appearance test, he will gauge her level of chemistry with him (the way she makes him feel). And once a man realizes that he has a good enough amount of chemistry with a woman, over time he will slowly evaluate various aspects of her character in order to determine if she is, in fact, a woman worth dating for long-term love and perhaps even marriage. How to Avoid Chasing Men Away and Finally Get the Relationship You Want Because commitment-minded men are more likely to assess a woman's relationship potential based on her character rather than her physical appearance or interpersonal chemistry alone, this short and concise book focuses on the most common deal-breaking "red flags" that stem from a woman's character (as well as those things that affect her character). This book was designed to provide women with an inside look at how men think and what men want in a woman when they're ready for a serious relationship. In it, you're going to see things from a man's point of view, as you discover the various aspects about a woman's life and behavior that might force a man to lose interest in her and disappear without a trace. Here's what you're going to learn inside: The one area of your life that high-quality men are DEEPLY concerned about, and how they secretly use it to judge your character (or lack thereof). How to easily maintain a DEEP emotional connection to a man by avoiding one simple relationship mistake. (Hint: This is the one mistake many women unknowingly struggle with.) An irritating habit that causes high-quality men to stop pursuing a woman almost INSTANTLY. How to be a high-value woman in the MOST important area of a man's life and make him see you as potential "Wife Material." A "man-repelling" female attitude that DRIVES good men away, and pushes them into the arms of "lesser" women. How to avoid KILLING a man's natural desire to please you by giving him the one thing ALL men desperately crave but would NEVER ask for from a woman. And much, much more... Would You Like to Know More? Get started now and discover the most common relationship-killers that cause men to quickly lose interest, pull away, and disappear. Scroll to the top of the page and select the 'buy button' now.

A comprehensive guide covering the top three critical issues every business owner faces, this book ensures that all parties understand each other's needs, thus clarifying a complex process and opening the door to successful negotiations. The volume includes an extensive stand-alone glossary of relevant terms and concepts, as well as comprehensive lists of business opportunity sources, contact lists, and reference materials. The disk contains all the forms from the book.