Doormat

WHAT WOULD YOU DO if your best friend got pregnant? Fourteen-year-old Jaime is used to her best friend, Melissa, being the center of attention. Melissa wants to be a model—she’s beautiful, popular, and talented. There’s just one small problem—Melissa thinks she’s pregnant, and she wants Jaime’s help. But there’s not much Jaime can do. Melissa refuses to tell her parents; Jaime refuses to be the same old reliable doormat. She’s got a lead in the school play and a new friendship with Zach. Jaime is changing, too. And she’s sick of being stepped on! Fifteen-year-old Kelly McWilliams’s debut novel is an inspiring story about friendship, choices, and learning how to shine.

Although there are a number of good books on the market that address the topic of emotional abuse, My Path from Doormat to Dignity is unique. It is a personal and passionate story, born of pain, written by a recovering doormat (me) that learned her lessons the hard way. Using in-depth biblical analysis and personal journal entries, this book chronicles how, one by one, I unmasked the lies that fed my passivity and uncovered the truths that set me free. Dignity is distinguished from pride, discernment from judgement, and forgiveness from reconciliation. Numerous biblical examples regarding how to be appropriately assertive are cited: Jesus, Paul, and Job in particular. Personal illustrations expose the red flags of emotional abuse, and the do's and don'ts of appropriate confrontation are addressed. Quotes from CS Lewis, Jane Austen, popular movies, and TV talk shows add relevancy, color, and depth. I write with the sincerest hope of coming alongside a fellow sufferer: someone who feels overwhelming fear and false guilt at the prospect of being assertive.

From Doormat to Divea recognizes every woman's secret desire to take center stage. Merci Miglino, life strategist and Jacqueline-of-all trades, takes you on a journey - from back stage to center stage in 10 simple steps. With a Perspective Makeover, Merci challenges you to forget the bad rap Divas get and consider the true and divine nature of the Diva in you! Use Diva vision and adopt a Diva-tude, says the author, to re-define selfishness, empowerment and extreme self-care. With humor-laced truth, enthusiasm, and an energy that pops off the page, Merci escorts you from the back row of your life, straight down the aisle to center stage!

Are you a self-professed doormat or have a suspicion that you might be? Do you fall into any of the following categories? * Unwilling to stand up for yourself or your values * Have difficulty setting and maintaining personal boundaries * Censor your authentic self in order to gain acceptance * Avoid confrontation at the expense of your own well-being * Always put others before yourself * A crowd or society follower/pleaser * Have a tendency to accept disrespectful or poor behavior from others So often a person may recognize one or many of these characteristics but is clueless how to change it. In this book the author tells a raw and real story of how her doormat tendencies resulted in a life of bad decisions and private suffering and how after a devastating life event rocked her world, she vowed to heal her doormat behaviors forever! The knowledge, wisdom, spiritual teachings and true life stories within are bound to inspire anyone who reads this book! From Doormat to Sweet Empowerment is the perfect guide for anyone who is finished with accepting the unacceptable in life and willing to embrace their self-worth once and for all to create the empowered life he or she has always desired.

Act I: Avoid conflict at all costs. Even when someone signs you up for something you really don't want to do. Act II: Try to hold things together, even when your life is spinning out of control. Act III: (You'll have to read the book to learn how it all plays out.) Playwright Leah Townsend doesn't think of herself as a doormat. In fact, her life is pretty good. There's the gorgeous and dependable Edward (even if he is a little dull), and her challenging career (even if the last two plays were flops). The trouble is, Leah's feeling restless these days. The new play isn't going well. Her agent is handing out ultimatums. And her boyfriend Edward, who insists Leah "doesn't handle conflict well," has the nerve to enroll her in a conflict-management class full of people she's sure are her polar opposites, including a conservative talk-radio host named Cinco Dublin who thrives on the very thing Leah wants to avoid--making waves. Can a conflict-challenged playwright ever learn to stand her ground...even if life doesn't come in three predictable acts?

Sometimes even when you try to do what's right, things don't always work out and you're left feeling like a doormat. In Life as an Awesome Doormat, author Dorothy MacIntosh shares a delightful array of anecdotes about just that. From growing up with her four siblings on a farm near Pictou, Nova Scotia, to her days as a math teacher at West Pictou District High School and raising a family of her own, Dorothy often ends up with the short end of the stick. But that doesn't stop her from trusting in herself or regretting her choices. She firmly believes if you have never made a mistake, then you have never done anything! Now seeing the bright side of things, Dorothy has plenty of funny stories to tell and thoughtful lessons to share. After all, if you can't laugh at yourself, you might be missing the lessons you could be learning. Life as an awesome doormat-it can happen to anyone. Be on the lookout!...

The author examines the dynamics of unhealthy relationships and offers spiritual techniques to help adult children from dysfunctional families develop and maintain fulfilling relationships with themselves and others.