Gender Neutral Parenting

Our culture has strict rules for acceptable behavior for men and women. But what about kids who fall outside the boundaries of prescribed roles? This book is a guide for parents in the practical application of Gender Neutral Parenting - a parenting style based on respect for a child's self-identity and providing latitude in exploring their own version of gender and gender expressions. In Gender Neutral Parenting you'll learn the Five Skills Essential for GNP: Skill #1: Become Aware of Genderization Skill #2: Become Aware of Your Gender Bias Skill #3: Create a Gender Diverse Environment Skill #4: Start a Dialog About Gender Skill #5: Dealing With Family and Friends and Dispelling Myths With practical examples and real world scenarios, this book will give you the strong foundation needed to implement GNP in your home and with your children. You'll learn about gender stereotypes for boys and girls and how to counteract them as a parent. Stereotypes covered include; Girl Genderization Stereotypes: Stereotype: Girls Are More Social and Less Physical Stereotype: Girls Are Princesses Stereotype: Girls Are Boy Crazy, Sexual Temptresses Stereotype: Girls Are Pure and Virginal Boy Genderization Stereotypes: Stereotype: Boys Are Physically Active But Behind Socially and Verbally Stereotype: Boys Are Emotionally Stunted Stereotype: Boys Are Slaves To Their Sex Drive Stereotype: Boys Will Be Boys You'll also learn how to deal with family and friends (and strangers) that don't understand your parenting approach. I'll answer questions like; "Are you trying to make her androgynous?" "Won't that make him gay?" "Why are you so anti-feminine/anti-masculine?" "Do you think she's trans*?" "You're raising a person not a social experiment." "She's going to hate you and need therapy." Or, "He'll be bullied." "I can't believe you let her play with Barbies! Don't you even care about her future?" This book is for any parent, grandparent, or childcare teacher that wants a guide to raising kids without the strict limitations of gender roles and who wants to engage kids in conversations that will make them savvy media consumers and critical problem solvers around issues of gender and equality.

"What did you have? A boy or a girl?" Kyl and Brent imagined it would be years before their child would identify with a gender. Until then... As a first-time parent, Kyl Myers had one aspect dialed in from the start: not being beholden to the boy-girl binary, disparities, or stereotypes from the day a child is born. With no wish to eliminate gender but rather gender discrimination, Kyl and her husband, Brent, ventured off on a parenting path less traveled. Raising a confident, compassionate, and self-aware person was all that mattered. In this illuminating memoir, Kyl delivers a liberating portrait of a family's choice to dismantle the long-accepted and often-harmful social construct of what it means to be assigned a gender from birth. As a sociologist, Kyl explores the science of gender and sex and the adulthood gender inequities that start in childhood. As a loving parent, Kyl shares the joy of watching an amazing child named Zoomer develop their own agency to grow happily and healthily toward their own gender identity and expression. Candid and surprising, Raising Them is an inspiration to parents and to anyone open to understanding the limitless possibilities of being yourself.

A guide that helps parents focus on their children's unique strengths and inclinations rather than on gendered stereotypes to more effectively bring out the best in their individual children, for parents of infants to middle schoolers. Reliance on Gendered Stereotypes Negatively Impacts Kids Studies on gender and child development show that, on average, parents talk less to baby boys and are less likely to use numbers when speaking to little girls. Without meaning to, we constantly color-code children, segregating them by gender based on their presumed interests. Our social dependence on these norms has far-reaching effects, such as leading girls to dislike math or increasing aggression in boys. In this practical guide, developmental psychologist (and mother of two) Christia Spears Brown uses science-based research to show how over-dependence on gender can limit kids, making it harder for them to develop into unique individuals. With a humorous, fresh, and accessible perspective, Parenting Beyond Pink & Blueaddresses all the issues that contemporary parents should consider—from gender-segregated birthday parties and schools to sports, sexualization, and emotional intelligence. This guide empowers parents to help kids break out of pink and blue boxes to become their authentic selves.

Why Gender-Neutral Parenting Is on the Rise In today's society, there is a growing movement towards gender-neutral parenting. This short read book, "Why Gender-Neutral Parenting Is on the Rise," explores the reasons behind this shift and its impact on children, society, and the future. The book begins by examining the concept of breaking gender stereotypes. It delves into the harmful effects of rigid gender roles and how they limit children's potential. By challenging these norms, parents can create a more inclusive and accepting environment for their children. Language plays a crucial role in shaping our understanding of gender. The book emphasizes the importance of using gender-neutral language and explores how it can contribute to a more equal society. Gender-neutral toys and clothing are also discussed in detail. The book highlights the benefits of providing children with a wide range of options, free from societal expectations. By allowing children to choose what they are interested in, parents can foster their individuality and self-expression. Education is another key aspect of gender-neutral parenting. The book explores how traditional educational systems perpetuate gender stereotypes and offers strategies for creating more inclusive learning environments. Challenging gender norms is not without its challenges. The book addresses the criticisms and pushback that gender-neutral parenting often faces. It also discusses the cultural and societal barriers that can hinder progress in this area. Creating inclusive spaces is essential for promoting gender equality. The book explores how parents can create environments that embrace diversity and support children in their gender identity. The benefits of gender-neutral parenting extend beyond the individual child. The book discusses how it can contribute to reducing the gender pay gap and combating gender-based violence. Despite its many advantages, gender-neutral parenting is not without its challenges. The book addresses the criticisms and pushback that parents may encounter and offers strategies for navigating these obstacles. In the final chapters, the book provides practical parenting strategies for implementing gender-neutral parenting. It emphasizes the importance of open communication and providing children with choices. The future outlook for gender-neutral parenting is promising. The book concludes by highlighting the positive impact it can have on children, society, and the world at large. To further enhance the reader's understanding, the book includes a frequently asked questions section. This section addresses common concerns and provides additional insights into gender-neutral parenting. If you have any questions or comments about gender-neutral parenting, this book encourages you to reach out. It aims to foster a community of support and understanding for those interested in embracing this progressive parenting approach. In addition, This title is a short read. A Short Read is a type of book that is designed to be read in one quick sitting. These no fluff books are perfect for people who want an overview about a subject in a short period of time. Table of Contents Why Gender-Neutral Parenting Is on the Rise Breaking Gender Stereotypes The Importance of Language Gender-Neutral Toys and Clothing Gender-Neutral Education Challenging Gender Norms Creating Inclusive Spaces Benefits for Children Impact on Society Breaking the Gender Pay Gap Reducing Gender-Based Violence Challenges and Criticisms Parental Pushback Cultural and Societal Barriers Supporting Gender Identity Parenting Strategies Open Communication Providing Choice Future Outlook Conclusion Frequently Asked Questions Have Questions / Comments?

If your child is questioning their gender identity, you may have questions of your own. The Conscious Parent's Guide to Gender Identity helps answer those questions, providing a relationship-oriented approach to supporting your child's journey. Conscious parenting means being present with your children and taking the time to understand their point of view. Using this mindful method, you can support and guide your children as they discover their authentic selves. With this easy-to-navigate guide, you'll learn how to... Communicate openly with your child about gender identity Empower your child to make their own decisions Create a welcoming environment at home Guide your child through social and medical transitions Help your child feel comfortable with friends, at school, and in your community Deal with others' opinions about your parenting choices Plan a happy, successful future for you and your child This mindful method of parenting will allow you and your children to strengthen your bond while allowing them to be who they truly are.

"International sex researcher, neuroscientist, and frequent contributor to The Globe and Mail (Toronto) Debra Soh [discusses what she sees as] gender myths in this ... examination of the many facets of gender identity"--

A detailed account of how gender is learned and unlearned in the home From the selection of toys, clothes, and activities to styles of play and emotional expression, the family is ground zero for where children learn about gender. Despite recent awareness that girls are not too fragile to play sports and that boys can benefit from learning to cook, we still find ourselves surrounded by limited gender expectations and persistent gender inequalities. Through the lively and engaging stories of parents from a wide range of backgrounds, The Gender Trap provides a detailed account of how today’s parents understand, enforce, and resist the gendering of their children. Emily Kane shows how most parents make efforts to loosen gendered constraints for their children, while also engaging in a variety of behaviors that reproduce traditionally gendered childhoods, ultimately arguing that conventional gender expectations are deeply entrenched and that there is great tension in attempting to undo them while letting 'boys be boys' and 'girls be girls.'

In 1965, when psychologists Sandra and Daryl Bem met and married, they were determined to function as truly egalitarian partners and to raise their children in accordance with gender-liberated, anti-homophobic, and sex-positive feminist ideals. This book by Sandra Bem, an autobiographical account of the Bems' nearly thirty-year marriage, is both a personal history of the Bems' past and a social history of a key period in feminism's past. It is also a look into feminism's future, because the Bems' children, Emily and Jeremy, now in their early twenties, speak in the book as well.