Getting Her To Be A Vanilla Dominatrix

For male sexual submissives with "vanilla" partners - practical relationship advice from an experienced part-time submissive who lives the Femdom life you dream of!Wouldn't it be nice to get the vanilla woman you love to enjoy sexually dominating you? Sorry, all the persuasion and pleading in the world won't turn her into an all-strutting, all-teasing and denying latex super-bitch!The good news is, you don't have to turn her into anything. You just have to sell her a part-time slave - you!This book takes you through offering her what she can't and shouldn't get in your real-life relationship, and how to manage the results - yes, you're the one who has to do all the work:* The Law of Ten, and why so few women feel they need kink, let alone Femdom.* What slave-owning Ancient Roman ladies can teach us about Femdom.* How to create a Mode Profile for your partner and then find the Femdom windows,* How to fit your fantasies to her vanilla (i.e. non-kinky) needs.* Advice on experiencing different fantasies.* How to ask for kink!* How to gradually sell yourself to her as a part-time slave, without driving her crazy (or making her think you're crazy).* How to keep things going in the long term.But why are you reading this description? Take a look inside the book and make up your own mind!(3rd edition, incorporating the feedback and experiences of readers.)

Lace up your corset and embrace your stiletto swagger with this unblushing guide to personal growth using the virtues of (gasp!) S&M. Offering mighty insights on everything from whipping negativity into submission to breaking the bondage of bad self-body image, The Little Vanilla Book gives you the tools you need to awaken the heroine deep inside and open your life to a scintillating new world of self discovery. Within the pages of this loving and bawdy exploration of all things you, former dominatrix Lux Alani uses her personal experiences and research to uncover the surprising truth that some of the primary lessons and practices found in the world of kink aren’t just for the kinksters—with the right mindset they’re for you too. But wait! If you’re nervous that you’ll need to buy a paddle and latex catsuit to get your transformation on, don’t worry! This isn’t about getting into the kink scene or practicing BDSM. Looking at five key aspects of every woman’s life: authenticity, confidence, body image, resilience, and fear, The Little Vanilla Book is truly about taking a unique journey to self-love and empowerment—one that shows you how to unchain your courage, reclaim your awesome self, and live your truth with gusto.

This anthology of true life vignettes offers intimate glimpses into hot BDSM play between a female dominant and her boy. It includes passionate moments that cover the gamut of play: teasing, denial, chastity, flogging, caning, pegging, slapping, and much more. It also includes incredibly sweet exchanges full of tenderness and ownership, lots of kissing, laughter, affection, and silliness. "Your breaths come hard and fast. I bite you relentlessly, thrusting up against you from behind. Every new attack makes you wince and moan, but still you push back against me until I am shoving you up against the wall, tearing at your skin like I am going to devour you."

Melyssa Hubbard's new book, Spanking City Hall, is the true story of an account executive who reinvented herself as a dominatrix in a Midwestern city. Harassed then sued by city government, Miss Ann stood her ground and fought for her right to conduct her legal businesses. She became involved in local politics, went on to fight unfair taxation, and created the first grassroots Tea Party movement in Indiana which helped oust the mayor who targeted her. Sometimes outrageous and always courageous, the book takes the reader into the gritty world of a career dominatrix. There she learned her life's purpose, battling both internal and external conflict on a surprising path to self-actualization. This memoir promises a fascinating journey for readers interested in alternative lifestyles, politics, psychology, philosophy and spirituality.

Joyce, a sixty-year-old, cat-loving spinster, would never have become a Lifestyle Domme (only Pro Dommes are paid) were it not for her latest work assignment--editing a magazine for submissive men. To research her audience, she investigates FemDom (as Female Domination is called in popular culture). Certain that she’s discovered her true nature, Joyce begins experimenting with various facets of female domination. She begins interacting with submissive men--teasing, humiliating, demanding. Now the youthful appearing Senior is pursued by submissive men far younger and wealthier than she could otherwise attract. Determined to master the art of dominance, she attends a convention of Adult Babies, joins a spanking society, gets served by Sissy Maids, learns how to penetrate a man with a strap-on device, rides a human horse steered by a penis lead, dates a wealthy man who craves electroshocks to his genitals, and acquires a slave. She details many aspects of FemDom including ClubFem (with its slogan “Women Enslaving Men”), male chastity devices, a BDSM resort where women rule, consensual slavery and FinDom (Financial Domination). With her newly acquired kinky expertise and superior attitude, it’s hot and cold running subs for this over-the-hill miss!

A history of the love affair between BDSM (Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, Sadism/Masochism) and science fiction and fantasy. Lewis Call explores representations of BDSM in the 1940s Wonder Woman comics, the pioneering prose of Samuel Delany and James Tiptree, and the television shows Battlestar Galactica, Buffy, Angel and Dollhouse.

Our lives are full of small tensions, our closest relationships full of struggle: between woman and man, artist and customer, purist and commercialist, professional and client—and between the dominant and the submissive. In Dominatrix, Danielle Lindemann draws on extensive fieldwork and interviews with professional dominatrices in New York City and San Francisco to offer a sophisticated portrait of these unusual professionals, their work, and their clients. Prior research on sex work has focused primarily on prostitutes and most studies of BDSM absorb pro-domme/client relationships without exploring what makes them unique. Lindemann satisfies our curiosity about these paid encounters, shining a light on one of the most secretive and least understood of personal relationships and unthreading a heretofore unexamined patch of our social tapestry. Upending the idea that these erotic laborers engage in simple exchanges and revealing the therapeutic and analytic nature of their work, Lindemann makes a major contribution to cultural studies, anthropology, and queer studies with her analysis of how gender, power, sexuality, and hierarchy shape all of our social experiences.

Sadomasochism is so much more than leather, latex, and cracking a whip on a slave's buttocks. The dark side of sexuality has countless variations between gentle and intense, between laughter and pain, between extreme and extremely unusual. Get inspired by the best ideas shared with us by nearly a hundred interviews with diverse couples who have explored BDSM (Bondage, Dominance, Sadism & Masochism) in all imaginable facets and have gained a wealth of erotic-practical experience – from the tickle fetishist to the dental sadist (and plenty of other erotic passions somewhere in between). Sounds unusual? It is! Because the imagination of these people with such inclinations goes in so many directions that we have compiled the best and even some quite explicit variations in this book. Our goal is to inspire you with new ideas if you already practice SM, or perhaps even show you the way to your very first naughty game with your partner. Prepare for a wild journey through various SM practices! However, for every suggestion, the rule is: everything can, but not everything must be implemented! When the candles are lit and the ropes are brought out from under the bed, always do what arouses you the most and satisfies you best. If you have already experienced SM practices, you may find new inspirations or develop an interest in practices you haven't tried before. Did you know, for example, that two coins can already be a rather mean torture device? Keep on reading! In any case, we want to inspire you with this book. And even if you do not practice BDSM yourself and just want an insight into the topic and its numerous facets, then you are in the right place! The artist and documentary photographer Hermann Zeichen from Karlsruhe has lovingly illustrated this book with his atmospheric black and white photographs from the SM scene.