Intentional Dating

Have you found yourself pouring time and energy into relationships that aren't good for you? Do you desire a life-giving romantic relationship, but find yourself choosing people who are not a good bet for healthy love? Do you wonder why you choose such people? Are you curious about what to look for in a person with whom you can discover love for a lifetime? In Intentional Dating, you will find answers to these questions (and much more). Intentional Dating provides an easy-to-read guide to: - Understanding the most common reasons why people fail to pick wisely in their romantic love choices - Recognizing those behavior patterns in a potential partner who will not be good for you - Discovering how you can avoid becoming a victim of unhealthy relationship choices - Identifying those qualities that are essential for an ongoing life-giving love - Realizing the fifteen keys to finding and keeping the love you desire The head and the heart are meant to work together in love--Intentional Dating will help you accomplish just that.

Sophie Venable, MA is a relationship and dating coach, working with single women and couples for over 15 years. Intentional Dating is based on her work with single women, helping them as a coach and mentor to look at their dating perspective, learn how to communicate with men, and get intentional about how they truly want to feel in relationship. These proven steps will change the course of your life and improve the quality of all of your relationships.

But because the majority of marriages in this country consist of unions in which wives are more heavily invested in marital success than are their husbands, much of this sensible effort by reasonable people needs to be consistently initiated and maintained by men. In fact, men often hold the keys to bringing about the type of loving marriage they had hoped for when they first said 'I do.' In How To Love Your Wife, Dr. Buri makes these keys clear, understandable, and accessible.

A “must-read” (The Washington Post) funny and practical guide to help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams. Have you ever looked around and wondered, “Why has everyone found love except me?” You’re not the only one. Great relationships don’t just appear in our lives—they’re the culmination of a series of decisions, including whom to date, how to end it with the wrong person, and when to commit to the right one. But our brains often get in the way. We make poor decisions, which thwart us on our quest to find lasting love. Drawing from years of research, behavioral scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury reveals the hidden forces that cause those mistakes. But awareness on its own doesn’t lead to results. You have to actually change your behavior. Ury shows you how. This “simple-to-use guide” (Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone) focuses on a different decision in each chapter, incorporating insights from behavioral science, original research, and real-life stories. You’ll learn: -What’s holding you back in dating (and how to break the pattern) -What really matters in a long-term partner (and what really doesn’t) -How to overcome the perils of online dating (and make the apps work for you) -How to meet more people in real life (while doing activities you love) -How to make dates fun again (so they stop feeling like job interviews) -Why “the spark” is a myth (but you’ll find love anyway) This “data-driven” (Time), step-by-step guide to relationships, complete with hands-on exercises, is designed to transform your life. How to Not Die Alone will help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.

Joshua Harris's first book, written when he was only 21, turned the Christian singles scene upside down...and people are still talking. More than 800,000 copies later, I Kissed Dating Goodbye, with its inspiring call to sincere love, real purity, and purposeful singleness, remains the benchmark for books on Christian dating. Now, for the first time since its release, the national #1 bestseller has been expanded with new content and updated for new readers. Honest and practical, it challenges cultural assumptions about relationships and provides solid, biblical alternatives to society's norm.Clear, stylish typeset, with user-friendly links to referenced Scripture.

Intentional Relationships: A Guide to Dating with Purpose “Your choice of a life partner will either make you or break you.” Let’s face it. Dating is not what it used to be. In a morally confused and fast-paced generation, today’s challenges and pressures can make a dating relationship seem impossible, as it has since become an escape for those afraid of commitment. I explore what it means to transition from unhealthy patterns of dating to seeking intentional relationships and dating with purpose. After going through several life-changing breakups, Tolu made a decision to do things differently. She stopped entertaining unhealthy relationships and started seeking intentional relationships. Having met and married the love of her life, she encourages readers to enjoy their seasons, seek intentional relationships, date with purpose and most importantly, prepare for God’s best and trust Him in the process! This book explores the following: —Making the most of your single life (the gift of singleness) —Defining your relationship —Recognizing deal breakers and putting an end to defective relationships —Recognizing when your relationship stops becoming intentional and becomes a situationship —Knowing the practical ways to date with purpose —Knowing how to avoid relationship pitfalls —Knowing how to date in a way that lays a solid foundation for a purposeful marriage. Are you tired of dating for fun? Are you frustrated at your many attempts to secure the bag? This is for you. Read this book and learn how to build, keep, and grow intentional dating relationships that lead to a fruitful one. It is time for you to get the meaningful and intentional relationship you deserve.

Have you found yourself pouring time and energy into relationships that aren't good for you? Do you desire a life-giving romantic relationship, but find yourself choosing people who are not a good bet for healthy love? Do you wonder why you choose such people? Are you curious about what to look for in a person with whom you can discover love for a lifetime? In Intentional Dating, you will find answers to these questions (and much more). Intentional Dating provides an easy-to-read guide to: Understanding the most common reasons why people fail to pick wisely in their romantic love choices Recognizing those behavior patterns in a potential partner who will not be good for you Discovering how you can avoid becoming a victim of unhealthy relationship choices Identifying those qualities that are essential for an ongoing life-giving love Realizing the fifteen keys to finding and keeping the love you desire The head and the heart are meant to work together in love--Intentional Dating will help you accomplish just that.

Break Free From Over-Functioning, Over-Delivering, People-Pleasing, and Ignoring Your Own Needs So You Can Finally Live the Life You Deserve! Most of us were never taught how to effectively express our preferences, desires or deal-breakers. Instead, we hide our feelings behind passive-aggressive behavior, deny our own truths, or push our emotions down until we get depressed or so frustrated that we explode, potentially destroying hard-won trust and relationships. The most successful and satisfied people on the planet have one thing in common: the ability to create and communicate clear, healthy boundaries. This ability is, hands down, the biggest game changer when it comes to creating a healthy, happy, self-determined life. In Boundary Boss, psychotherapist Terri Cole reveals a specific set of skills that can help you stop abandoning yourself for the sake of others (without guilt or drama) and get empowered to consciously take control of every aspect of your emotional, spiritual, physical, personal, and professional life. Since becoming a Boundary Boss is a process, Cole also offers actionable strategies, scripts, and techniques that can be used in the moment, whenever you need them. You will learn: • How to recognize when your boundaries have been violated and what to do next • How your unique “Boundary Blueprint” is unconsciously driving your boundary behaviors, and strategies to redesign it • Powerful boundary scripts so in the moment you will know what to say • How to manage “Boundary Destroyers”—including emotional manipulators, narcissists, and other toxic personalities • Where you fall on the spectrum of codependency and how to create healthy, balanced relationships This book is for women who are exhausted from over-giving, overdoing, and even over-feeling. If you’re getting it all done but at the expense of yourself, give yourself the gift of Boundary Boss.