Moments That Matter

There are moments in our lives when we have to make both big and little choices that have long-lasting consequences. These are moments when someone-supernatural or mortal-talks to us directly or through circumstances and gives us insight. We need to pay attention to these moments that matter because they are profound and potentially life-altering.

The New York Times bestselling authors of Switch and Made to Stick explore why certain brief experiences can jolt us and elevate us and change us—and how we can learn to create such extraordinary moments in our life and work. While human lives are endlessly variable, our most memorable positive moments are dominated by four elements: elevation, insight, pride, and connection. If we embrace these elements, we can conjure more moments that matter. What if a teacher could design a lesson that he knew his students would remember twenty years later? What if a manager knew how to create an experience that would delight customers? What if you had a better sense of how to create memories that matter for your children? This book delves into some fascinating mysteries of experience: Why we tend to remember the best or worst moment of an experience, as well as the last moment, and forget the rest. Why “we feel most comfortable when things are certain, but we feel most alive when they’re not.” And why our most cherished memories are clustered into a brief period during our youth. Readers discover how brief experiences can change lives, such as the experiment in which two strangers meet in a room, and forty-five minutes later, they leave as best friends. (What happens in that time?) Or the tale of the world’s youngest female billionaire, who credits her resilience to something her father asked the family at the dinner table. (What was that simple question?) Many of the defining moments in our lives are the result of accident or luck—but why would we leave our most meaningful, memorable moments to chance when we can create them? The Power of Moments shows us how to be the author of richer experiences.

Encouragement and Enlightenment for the Caregiver Moments that Matter is a roadmap for caregivers and their loved ones with memory loss Experience the Journey: - Gain knowledge of memory loss and dementia - Discover how to create significant moments for you and your loved one - Learn and apply down-to-earth cognitive deficit tools and memory techniques - Realize the value of true-to-life examples while facing the challenging roles of caregivers and their loved ones - Consider a multitude of age-appropriate and ability-appropriate activities The caregiver's task is not an easy one; confusion, frustration, heartbreak, and behavioral issues will present roadblocks each and every day. However, there are ways to enhance the quality of life for those who suffer with memory loss and dementia. Moments that Matter offers unique and intentional activities that will result in moments of joy for everyone traveling this challenging pathway. "This is a must-have reference guide for those entrusted with the care of their loved ones with cognitive deficits. Its step-by-step approach for making special moments is an excellent source for anyone desiring to finish well in life." - Dr. Joanne Studer, Licensed Psychologist and memory specialist

Who can’t remember the delight of building a fort of cozy caverns with quilts and blankets on a cold wintry day as a child? The anticipation of a visit from the tooth fairy in the night still brings squeals of excitement from children today. For generations, children have imagined themselves flying high above their schoolyards while friends gaze up in amazement. This collection of more than fifty whimsical poems was written for children, though parents and even grandparents will enjoy reading side by side with them. They will discover together many shared experiences of childhood—and be inspired to turn more of these moments into memories! So many simple everyday happenings are all around and right in front of us. These can become moments that matter, to be recognized and appreciated—if we pause long enough in our busy lives to notice them.

Moments that Matter in the Learning and Development of Children: Reflections from Educators explores the significant moments that unfold for young people in their schooling from the perspectives of teachers and school staff. Educators often reflect on “moments” as being a critical piece of their work with children. They can help make things better for students and produce a difference in lives. They are meaningful for young people, as well as consequential for teachers and school staff as they reflect on the outcomes of their efforts. Yet, as they are difficult to define and capture, these moments often are not studied for the value they offer. This book promotes awareness of these moments, as well as their connected meanings and possibilities. Recognizing the significance of moments extends an opportunity to situate schooling in broader contexts and to understand learners as whole embodied beings, engaged in social interactions, making sense of their surrounding world, and generating transformations in it. When educators reflect deeply about the possibilities connected to the moments they share with children, they recognize the multitude of opportunities that support their learning and development. They become “awake” to some of moments’ promises.

Many industries today are putting humans at the center of the business. The same is true for L&D. Use the Moments That Matter in Corporate Learning Framework to put people at the center of learning. In this issue of TD at Work, Marek Hyla, Ariel Wrona, Grzegorz Plezia, and Natalia Kmiec-Braun explain the six moments, associated experiences, and the individuals involved who are part of the learning journey. Further, they: · Detail why each moment is important and how to create an effective experience. · Suggest questions to ask learners along the way to create the best learning journey. · Offer considerations that can facilitate or detract from learning. The Tools & Resources in this issue is the Moments That Matter checklist for instructional designers.

2022 REVISED EDITION “I want to do the right thing. She was a wonderful mother, and deserves only that.” This common refrain comes from children of aged, ill parents. Families struggle with decisions, confronting the inevitable while providing parents with love and care. Modern medicine often offers endless treatments—but illnesses eventually progress and the focus must ultimately shift to end-of-life care. Moments that Matter: Cases in Ethical Eldercare reflects Dr. Gordon’s extensive experience with families struggling with poignant and difficult decisions. “Caring effectively and lovingly for the elders in our families can present daunting dilemmas. Moments that Matter: Cases in Ethical Eldercare provides invaluable information and insights for all concerned. Dr. Michael Gordon has given us a timely and timeless gift with this book.” —Steven R. Sabat, Ph.D., Professor of Psychology, Georgetown University “Dr. Gordon has written a thoughtful and indispensible guide to aid families facing difficult choices in caring for aging family members. There is no other single resource that so deftly and expertly draws together the necessary elements to navigate this phase of the life course.” —Ross Upshur, M.D., Director, Joint Centre for Bioethics, University of Toronto “Drawing on a rich supply of vignettes from his vast clinical experience, Dr. Michael Gordon brings good advice and trenchant analysis to families caring for older relatives. Moments that Matter: Cases in Ethical Eldercare is informative, practical, and compassionate—everything that struggling caregivers need.” —Muriel R. Gillick, M.D., Professor of Population Medicine, Harvard Medical School

Navigate your Caregiver Journey This Journey Guide is a companion study to the first book, Moments that Matter: A roadmap for caregivers and their loved ones with memory loss. They are designed to be used together. Learn and study the art of Moment-Making: Personal reflection Self-care Spiritual growth Support Groups Individual Study Age and ability appropriate activities Caregivers are Wounded Healers. A caregiver's wounds are many. Physical strain, anger, guilt, and grief can be daily stressors. Sharing your personal story with group members, as well as hearing theirs, helps to restore brokenness and brings healing. God is the great healer and guide on our journey. He is our strength when we are weary, our hope when we are discouraged, and our encourager when the stress of caregiving weighs us down. He allows us to find joy in the journey. "This insightful book and the Caregiver Support Group gave me ideas and guidelines that helped me love and care for my husband in new ways." .....Susie Nelson "This support group altered my perspective, my role changed from extending my mother's life to providing quality loving care." .....Manny Roman