The Evolution Of Love And Relationships

This is a much-needed update on the latest theory and research on love supplied by leading scientific experts. It is suitable for psychologists, neuroscientists, anthropologists, sociologists, and anyone with an interest in love and what has been learned from scientific studies of it.

Lampert presents the story of love: when, why, and how love became a central experience of humans. Assuming that our world is built of matter, she states that evolution is the change of this matter, according to the supreme criterion of success in offspring reproduction. Love evolved because of its contribution to reproduction. It first appeared in the mothers of mammals, who used the body's proximity as a main adaptation. Human love expands its borders to include the relationships between women and men, friends, and even nonhuman subjects. Lampert describes motherhood as the source of the genetic, hormonal, brain, and behavioral changes that we call love. In the sexual stage, love enters both as a way to select a partner and as a bonding force. Sexuality is built upon ancient layers of early forms of life, before humanity, and includes strong elements of aggression which interrupt our ability to experience a peaceful sexual life. Maternal love and sexual love combine in the evolution of the family. Lampert also examines homosexual love as a way to look at the fascinating process of growing sexual identity and behavior in an individual. Written in a style suited to any educated person, Lampert uses current scientific knowledge on the brain, hormones, the nervous system, ethology, psychology, and even modern physics to make her case. This book will be of interest to students and scholars alike.

Welcome to my world and the journey of love. Walking into the unknown tales of what we call life. This is the sweat and tears of thirteen summers and the evolution of love. You will have full possession of my heart to witness the stages of healing the inner demons within. Hear my voice, feel my happiness, and then feel my pain. Capture that moment in time where you will look down and fall, but that day shall come when you will stand tall and rise again. This too shall pass.

Love, sex, and relationship wisdom from the polyamory movement are offered in this practical guide to spiritual enlightenment. Contrary to popular belief, monogamy and celibacy are not the only two options for exploring a spiritual path. In Opening Love, Dr. Anya translates the lessons learned by the pioneers of the polyamory (many loves) movement for readers who actively pursue personal growth through spiritual practice. Drawing on both personal experience and philosophical reflection, this nonfiction guide explains how to cultivate intentional, creative, non-conventional relationships that center on principles of honesty and consent. Instead of committing solely to a single person, spiritual seekers can instead commit to pursuing openness and courage in all their interactions. As polyamorists understand: love, sex, and relationships are not scarce commodities, rather they are an abundant resource for healing and evolving one's consciousness. With eloquence and precision, Dr. Anya describes how to cultivate compersion (the opposite of jealousy), find an intentional community based on common core values, and build advanced emotional and communication skills. Meditation and reflection practices are offered throughout, to create an interactive, truly transformative learning experience.

"Sacred and Secular: Exploring the Evolution of Love through Catholic Teachings" delves deeply into the intricate tapestry of love across centuries, examining its transformation through the lens of Catholicism. In this comprehensive exploration, the author meticulously traces the trajectory of love from its foundational roots in ancient scriptures to its contemporary manifestations in the modern world. The book embarks on its journey by elucidating the foundational elements of love within the Catholic tradition. It meticulously dissects biblical perspectives on love, scrutinizing key passages from both the Old and New Testaments. Furthermore, it delves into the teachings of early Church Fathers, such as Augustine and Jerome, illuminating their profound insights into the nature of love and its role within early Christian communities. A significant portion of the book is devoted to the exploration of love within the framework of Canon Law. It elucidates the canonical views on love and marriage, emphasizing the sacramental nature of marriage and the intricate regulations governing love within the Catholic Church. Additionally, it meticulously traces the evolution of Canon Law pertaining to love, highlighting the historical shifts and cultural influences that have shaped canonical interpretations over time. The narrative seamlessly transitions to an analysis of Catholic documents on love, particularly focusing on papal encyclicals and Vatican II documents. Through a meticulous examination of key encyclicals such as "Deus Caritas Est" and "Amoris Laetitia," the book unveils the rich tapestry of papal teachings on various aspects of love, ranging from eros to agape. Furthermore, it explores Vatican II documents, such as "Gaudium et Spes," shedding light on the Church's stance on love within the context of human rights and dignity. In its exploration of contemporary Catholic thought, the book engages with the perspectives of influential theologians, such as Hans Urs von Balthasar and Karl Rahner. It analyzes their works, offering insights into contemporary interpretations of love within the Catholic tradition. Moreover, it addresses the challenges and opportunities for love in the modern world, examining societal trends and discussing how Catholic teachings respond to contemporary challenges. Ultimately, "Sacred and Secular: Exploring the Evolution of Love through Catholic Teachings" culminates in a reflective conclusion, where the author encapsulates the key insights gleaned from the exploration. Through its comprehensive analysis, the book not only provides a nuanced understanding of the transformations of love across centuries but also underscores the enduring relevance of Catholic teachings on love in both sacred and secular contexts.

We live in a culture where romantic illusions about love abound. From movies and ballads and fairy tales, we learn the idea that somewhere out there exists that one special person who will fulfill all of our desires and make our hearts - and our lives - complete. And we're taught that once we find the "right" person, we will simply live Happily Ever After without any conscious effort on our part. By the time we're young adults, most of us have had the experience of falling in love, but very few of us are equipped with the skills and insights needed to sustain that love, or to create a healthy, lasting, and evolving partnership. In truth, love is a verb: a regular practice, and a moment-by-moment, deliberate choice. It's not an experience that just happens to us, but an environment that we create and then nourish with our ongoing commitment and attention. Few of us are skilled in the practice of love, but approaching it as a practice is precisely what is required, both for the longevity of our relationships and for our ability to evolve as individuals within them. The Evolution of Loving provides an intimate glimpse into eight remarkable partnerships that have been consciously built - and in many cases, rebuilt - on a foundation of authenticity, personal responsibility, and trust. As a photography book and a written essay, It is both a beautiful celebration of, and a concise synthesis of, the principles and practices - including meditations, communication exercises, daily and monthly rituals, and more - that have helped each couple fulfill the highest promise of partnership. The experiences conveyed in both words and images inspire us as to what becomes possible when we have the courage to fully open up to and grow in partnership alongside another human being. The book has a very warm and inviting layout and design, like that of one's personal diary that invites you to snuggle up next to a loved one or a fire and travel deep into the devotional love shared by each couple. On it pages, you will discover the inspiring real-life stories of sixteen men and women who have learned to listen generously, to communicate authentically, and to take complete responsibility for our own happiness - and whose relationships reflect the depth of this commitment. And while these couples all display an exceptional degree of devotion, it's vital to understand that this did not happen by chance. The level of intimacy between them was created in direct proportion to how much each was willing to give of themselves for the sake of their relationship - not only in happy times when giving comes easy, but at times when old wounds are triggered and our every survival instinct is screaming for us to build defensive walls and guard our hearts. The commitment to return to the practices that foster, maintain and restore connection, even in the midst of heartbreak, disillusionment or uncertainty, is what ultimately guided each couple to the other side. In this book, you will learn the fundamental principles for deepening physical and emotional intimacy over time, and for allowing your partnership to foster both your individual and collective evolution. You will learn how to intentionally view your partner - flaws and all - from the broadest and most empowered perspective. You'll learn how to balance togetherness with autonomy, and to appreciate the ways your individual differences can contribute to the expansion of your partnership. Finally, the book closes with a comprehensive array of rituals and practices that will support you in strengthening the foundation of shared values between you and your partner, even when times are tough or communication has broken down. The promise of evolving love is to use whatever comes up as an opportunity to heal past wounds, to understand our partners more intimately, and to remove any obstacles within ourselves to experiencing love's full depth. Each couple featured throughout this book has provided a piece of what is now a precise roadmap for nurturing the ongoing evolution of loving. The insights, tools, practices and examples offered here will light the way to an experience of love that grows ever deeper, transparent, and trusting over time.

An exploration of human behavior examines the innate aspects of love, sex, and marriage, discussing flirting behavior, courting postures, the brain chemistry of attraction, divorce and adultery in societies around the world, and more. Reprint.

THE FIRST STAGE: THE SEXUAL INSTINCT THE SECOND STAGE: LOVE CHAPTER I THE BIRTH OF EUROPE CHAPTER II THE DEIFICATION OF WOMAN (THE FIRST FORM OF METAPHYSICAL EROTICISM) FOOTNOTES: CHAPTER III PERVERSIONS OF METAPHYSICAL EROTICISM THE THIRD STAGE (The Unity of Sexual Impulse and Love) CHAPTER I. THE LONGING FOR THE SYNTHESIS. CHAPTER II THE LOVE-DEATH (THE SECOND FORM OF METAPHYSICAL EROTICISM) CHAPTER III THE CONFLICT BETWEEN SEXUALITY AND LOVE The Seeker of Love and The Slave of Love CHAPTER IV THE REVENGE OF SEXUALITY The Demoniacal and the Obscene CONCLUSION THE PSYCHOGENETIC LAW The Individual as an Epitome of the Human Race