Victim Or Victorious

The world is peopled by victims; everyone has a story. However, victimhood is just the beginning of the story. This book is about the endings of at least some of those stories, the stories of victims who strive to overcome and even triumph in the end. This book is a collection of research perspectives and personal stories exploring the various pathways for overcoming victimhood. It is hoped that they might offer an inspiration for others and encourage others to stay on the path to find a positive ending. Victim Victorious is an examination of the ways in which victims come to rise above the challenges that they face. Victims may be innocent bystanders, and in no way responsible for their victimhood. Nonetheless, they can -- and indeed we argue need to -- take responsibility for finding a personal solution. To assist in this task, this book chronicles the pathway of prejudice and how the pain and the damage experienced by individual victims may be overcome by effort, by and on their own behalf. The first half of the book features outsider views of victimhood. A range of professionals, philosophers, psychologists, criminologists and critical theorists offer their thoughts on how people might overcome victimhood. The second half of the book features insider views of victimhood; in this section, the victims speak for themselves about their experience and how they have endeavoured to break through their victimhood. This book is less about identifying and proscribing the behaviours of perpetrators and more about the efforts that victims can undertake to heal themselves as they journey towards resilience and victory.

The world is peopled by victims; everyone has a story. However, victimhood is just the beginning of the story. This book is about the endings of at least some of those stories, the stories of victims who strive to overcome and even triumph in the end. This book is a collection of research perspectives and personal stories exploring the various pathways for overcoming victimhood. It is hoped that they might offer an inspiration for others and encourage others to stay on the path to find a positive ending. Victim Victorious is an examination of the ways in which victims come to rise above the challenges that they face. Victims may be innocent bystanders, and in no way responsible for their victimhood. Nonetheless, they can -- and indeed we argue need to -- take responsibility for finding a personal solution. To assist in this task, this book chronicles the pathway of prejudice and how the pain and the damage experienced by individual victims may be overcome by effort, by and on their own behalf. The first half of the book features outsider views of victimhood. A range of professionals, philosophers, psychologists, criminologists and critical theorists offer their thoughts on how people might overcome victimhood. The second half of the book features insider views of victimhood; in this section, the victims speak for themselves about their experience and how they have endeavoured to break through their victimhood. This book is less about identifying and proscribing the behaviours of perpetrators and more about the efforts that victims can undertake to heal themselves as they journey towards resilience and victory.

This book has it all. It speaks about Ernestine's life and how she was violated at a point in her life. The violation made her whole life change in a blank of an eye at the age of twenty-three. Ernestine talks about how she was raped while her two-year-old son was in the car, and she continued life with no counseling. She expresses the manifestation of fear, guilt, depression, suicide and the desire to overcome her situation. There are women throughout the world who have a story, but they are scared to tell their truth. This book was written to help women to be strong and reach out for help if needed.

It’s Time to Live a Victorious Life This book is about victory. You can win right now. The choice is yours. Overcoming obstacles from sexual abuse to social injustices, Cynthia Garrett rose to influence in Hollywood. Yet it wasn’t until she realized what the war against victimization is really about that she found the freedom, victory, and peace she sought. She wants you to experience it, too. Through faith and personal examples, Garrett shows you how to confront the victim mindset, quit playing the blame game, defeat fear, and address pride and power. You’ll learn how to navigate the war zones—personal, spiritual, and political—of daily life. In the midst of all life throws at you, there are two constants: God’s unconditional love and the ability it gives you to live a victorious life. I Choose Victory will: challenge your thought patterns; encourage spiritual and personal growth; and equip you to win.

Can you remember a time of innocence? A time when life had not overwhelmed you with unexpected experiences? The majority of people go through life with a confident expectation of what their life will be. Some may feel that they will receive the benefits of going to college and having a career. Maybe you envisioned your life as a mother of two, married to the man of your dreams. Everything seemed to be on track, but unexpected experiences arose and detoured your anticipated life.Like a thief in the night, an unexpected experience stole innocence. The times of my youth became a faded memory. The burden of it all has plagued my yesterday as I fight for my tomorrow. However, the unexpected experiences caused a detour in my life’s plan; today, I decided to be an overcomer. I decided to go from Victim to Victorious! How about you?

Cassandra Stroud-Burns states, "The time for silence is over. There are many people, men and women, who are being victimized daily. They are keeping their pain, their hurts on the inside because they don't think anyone would believe them."

The pastor and gospel musician writes about usind God's help to overcome generations of dysfunction.

How do you find your way to healing after hurting for so many years? Let Me Fix My Crown tells the story of how a young woman learns the process to healing by first figuring out where her pain originated. At the age of twelve, I was betrayed by someone dear to me. As a teenager, I submerged myself in a dysfunctional relationship that leads to teen pregnancy and low self-esteem. It wasn't until after a failed suicide attempt and realizing that my best friend was my soul mate did I realize that it was time to fix my crown. Along the way, I learned that three key components of my healing were faith, grace, and forgiveness. In this book, I share the relevance of these three components with you.