A Reality Guide For Cheating Women And Men

A Reality Guide For Women And Men: Men Speak The Truth About Why They Cheat

Whether straight or gay, most men start their relationships desiring monogamy. This is rooted in the pervasive notion that monogamy exists as a sign of true love. Yet despite this deeply held cultural ideal, cheating remains rampant. In this accessible book, Eric Anderson investigates why 78% of men he interviewed have cheated despite their desire not to. Combining 120 interviews with research from the fields of sociology, biology, and psychology, Anderson identifies cheating as a product of wanting emotional passion for one's partner, along with a steadily growing desire for emotionally-detached recreational sex with others. Anderson coins the term "the monogamy gap" to describe this phenomenon. Anderson suggests that monogamy is an irrational ideal because it fails to fulfil a lifetime of sexual desires. Cheating therefore becomes the rational response to an irrational situation. The Monogamy Gap draws on a range of concepts, theories, and disciplines to highlight the biological compulsion of our sexual urges, the social construction of the monogamous ideal, and the devastating chasm that lies between them. Whether single or married, monogamous or open, straight or gay, readers will find The Monogamy Gap to be an enlightening, intellectually compelling, and provocative book.

The only thing that Randy Wallace condemns more than cheating is cheating done wrong. Though he encourages faithfulness, Mr. Wallace realizes that there is no stopping some men from seeking affection outside of the home. There is no reason to cause further distress to the home by getting caught. If you are in need of a foolproof plan to conceal your extracurricular activities, Cheating Men: How to Do It Right is the book for you. Mr. Wallace has consulted with both women and men to analyze patterns of how men are caught cheating - and follows up with how to avoid the pitfalls of the promiscuous.

'I haven't orgasmed in months. He's never home. I'm just not happy anymore. Should I go? Will I find anyone better? Should I cheat? Would it make me a bad person? What if he finds out? Am I ready to let him go? 'Sound familiar? As it turns out, you're not alone. In a 2006 US study, 72% of men and 68% of women said they would cheat if they'd never be caught. Yet there's been no guide, no manual -- until NOW!Marleen Marylin Mour's "Cheating: How to Do it Right - A Guide for Women" delivers a uniquely judgement-free perspective on cheating. This no-nonsense, easy-to-ready guide holds your hand from the beginning to the end of your unconventional journey.with real-life anecdotes and saucy details on every page, this guide reveals everything you need to know including how to:* 'Get off the fence'* Keep your secret,* Select a playmate,* Manage the relationship,* Deal with the guilt* Call it quits & much more!Thinking of cheating?Here's how to do it right, if at all...

This book is an essential guide, written by a man, for women who want to protect what they have at home while still getting a little something on the side for themselves. Each chapter details one of "The 9 Golden Rules" of carrying on a successful affair and analyzes the real-life infidelities of two of the author's close female friends. Let's face it, ladies: there are a lot of good things about having an affair. It can bring the passion, romance and excitement back into your life that may be missing from your marriage or monogamous relationship while keeping the love alive between you and your partner. In fact, the only real downside to cheating is getting caught. But what if you could remove that risk once and for all?

What the latest science tells us about the brain's reward systems, love, and sex--and how to prevent an affair from destroying your life How can I prevent an affair from destroying my life? Whether I am the cheater or the betrayed partner, how can I survive, even thrive, in the wake of an affair? Infidelity provides key insights to find your true sexual and romantic potential and advocates honesty, trust, and integrity--the fundamentals of love. People often cheat in a haze of delusion, believing that it will bring them real love, help them have better sex, lift their spirits, and boost their sagging self-esteem; however, very often, cheating wrecks relationships and erodes self-esteem. In Infidelity, one of America's top doctors combines neuroscience, addiction theory, and common sense to explain the three types of cheating: emotional, virtual, and physical; why they're so prevalent; and how to live in accordance with our values when we are drawn to stray. Examining what the latest science tells us about the brain's reward systems, love, and sex, Dr. Kenneth Paul Rosenberg reveals what drives men and women to cheat and what they can do about it. At a time when America's pornography obsession rises to the level of a competing sexual interest, when is porn a problem, and when does it count as infidelity? And since it is not the act of infidelity alone that destroys a couple, how does any couple prevent growing apart? Through concrete rules addressing these and other vital questions, Dr. Rosenberg guides couples on how to prevent cheating, stop it from progressing, and repair the damage caused by an affair.