Growing Beyond Abuse

"Amidst the growing literature on sexual exploitation by professionals, precious little has been written by & for victims. In fact, little has been written about the recovery process. This book represents an important contribution. It focuses on the recovery process & gives concrete advice & tools to those who are trying to grow beyond abuse. The transition from victim to survivor is a difficult one & this book should help considerably. This book is an invaluable aid to those who have experienced abuse. I hope therapists will recommend it to their clients...it can help in ways that therapy can't." Gary Schoener, Executive Director, Walk-In Counseling Center. "Millions of human beings have been scarred by the abuse they suffered during childhood. Many, many adults have been scarred too. Relatives, strangers, even members of the helping professions have been the perpetrators. The abused need help & 'Growing Beyond Abuse' promises genuine help." Karen Casey, Author, "Each Day A New Beginning." Available through: Omni Recovery Inc., P.O. Box 50033, Minneapolis, Minnesota 55403, Tel. (612) 698-2721.

Beyond Abuse is a biographical fiction novel centered on the journey of Marcella March, a biracial, sixth generation Jamaican growing up in the early 20th century. Due to a tragic ‘incident’ in Jamaica, Marcella is sent to Colombia, South America to live with extended family. After five painful years in Colombia, she returns to Jamaica only to find herself in drastically different circumstances. With several brothers fighting in the Second World War in England, and key family members being meanspirited, her curiosity piqued. This leads her to delve into the family’s complicated lineage to England. The revelation is astounding. Marcella March’s lifelong quest for success is threatened by the blatant and subtle abuse that she faces. Will our heroine’s tormentors succeed in quelling her fiery determination? Dive into the heart-wrenching story of Marcella’s desire to overcome adversity and rise above her family’s painful past, all while developing into the resilient young woman that she is destined to be.

In January 2004 a newly founded evangelical organization called PASCH was formed. The word denotes the Passover or time of new beginnings--when God kept people safe in their own homes before leading them into freedom from abuse and oppression. Yet the word PASCH also stands for Peace and Safety in the Christian Home. PASCH began as a small group of therapists, sociologists, domestic-violence experts, clergy, biblical scholars, survivors--and dedicated Christians. In essence, PASCH was born out of the cries, confusion, and frustration of the people of God. As we encountered many horrifying situations of domestic abuse in Christian homes, those of us who seek to address various aspects of the issue concluded that we needed a fellowship of concerted study, prayer, and action. It was the dream of Catherine Clark Kroeger that an edited book might emerge from the 2005 and 2006 PASCH conferences in order that the papers, presentations, and discussions might be widely available. We found that to make that happen, we needed to work together: that each of us possessed one piece of the puzzle, and that by God's grace we could collectively begin to put the pieces together. The topic of abuse is ugly, which is why so many Christians shy away from discussing it. But in this volume we have tried to present an accurate, faith-based analysis of abuse in the Christian family context. We hope that various chapters stimulate discussion--sometimes debate--and in so doing prompt pastor and people to action. We call on you the reader to consider the various ideas and perspectives offered throughout the book. Hopefully each chapter will prompt you to consider afresh how you conceptualize violence among families of faith. Like you, the reader, the contributors to our collection come from various faith traditions, work in different contexts, and see the issue in part based on their own narrative and training. Yet, despite our differences--and our ongoing debates--we are unanimous that violence has no place in the home. Every home should be a safe place; every home a shelter. When abuse occurs in families of faith, it is the responsibility of the church to offer compassion and support to victims and to call those who act abusively to accountability and justice. Our edited collection includes · Dan Allender speaking from the heart about the impact of the fall on relationships between men and women; · Al Miles reflecting on his pastoral experience of the difficulties and opportunities of speaking out against violence in Christian families; · Bruce and Karen McAndless-Davis offering one couple's story of the long journey toward accountability and dramatic change; · Julie Owens retelling her own dramatic story of abuse, the life imprisonment of her ex-partner and what she wished every pastor knew about domestic violence.

She was born with a trusting nature, searching for her own identity within her family structure and in her own life. Unfulfilled and desperately seeking approval from those whom she loved and respected, Kathy naively placed her trust in the wrong person and soon found herself in a physically abusive relationship. Now she must find the strength to pick up the pieces of her brokenness and turn back to the only One who can put her together again—the Lord. InA Vision Beyond AbuseKathy Goodhew candidly writes about her fight to escape from the chains of abuse and find her way to peace. For anyone who struggles with pain from a broken past, know that you're not alone. Learn, along with Kathy, to find a vision beyond abuse and never give up hope in Jesus and the cross, where his grace pardons all sin.

When women and men experience trauma or severe life stressors including sexual abuse, it is not uncommon for their lives to unravel. Acclaimed Australian motivational speaker Di Riddell’s great passion is showing you that you can re-activate and tap into your inner confidence and self-esteem bringing new energy and joy into your life, so you can know yourself as peaceful, complete, whole and safe. Abuse knows no boundaries: it has many faces and wears different masks. The new edition of BEYOND ABUSE contains Di’s advice for abuse victims in modern times of both genders and nine original stories contributed from real men and women of all ages. Mental and physical abuse has been happening before #metoo exposed it as an unfortunate everyday occurrence. Di is a mature woman whose passion is living with confidence after healing from sexual abuse. She shows a real and authentic approach to life and shares freely her incredible experiences, turning lemons into lemonade. p.p1 {margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica; color: #454545} p.p2 {margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica; color: #454545; min-height: 14.0px}

In this book, "Thriving Beyond Abuse," we embark on a transformative journey that guides readers through the process of healing, growing, and thriving after experiencing abuse. We dive into various aspects such as breaking through fears, confronting oneself regarding circumstances outside of our control, cultivating self-awareness, fostering self-reflection, nurturing self-love, and ultimately, rebuilding a life characterized by resilience and empowerment. Through practical advice, personal anecdotes, and expert insights, this book provides a roadmap for survivors seeking to move beyond the trauma of abuse and create a life filled with joy, purpose, and personal fulfillment.

Beyond Abuse: Moving Forward One Day At A Time is a collection of poems that expresses or shows a journey from a place of pain and darkness to a place of purpose and hope. Divided into three sections, witness the changes from a lowly caterpillar, a transformational cocoon and an emerging butterfly.