How To Divorce A Narcissist And Succeed In The Family Court

Leaving a narcissist and going through the family court is likely to be the scariest thing you'll ever have to do. This book will be your trusted companion and guide to the practical, legal and emotional challenges you'll face along the way. It contains information you won't find elsewhere and it costs a fraction of the price of an hour with a solicitor. Narcissists form a disproportionate percentage of those who separate and divorce because they're not good at relationships. They tend to fall out with family members and work colleagues too and they can't be in an intimate relationship without lying, manipulating, shaming, confusing and controlling. This book is for you if you are: A woman or a man who is or was married or cohabiting Leaving, or thinking of leaving, a difficult or narcissistic partner A parent facing children proceedings in the family court Being alienated from you child Trying to co-parent with a narcissist In divorce and/or financial proceedings with a narcissist A litigant in person (self-representing) Represented by a solicitor and/or barrister The different types of narcissist are explained, including covert narcissists, sociopaths, and those with borderline personality disorder. You're likely to find yourself in court when you leave because you can't negotiate with a narcissist and there's no other way to resolve the disputes around your children and/or come to a financial settlement. The book helps you to set boundaries with the narcissist, communicate with them and manage their behaviour to mitigate its effects on you and your children. Unfortunately, most lawyers and judges don't understand the narcissist's disordered personality and try to settle these disputes in the same way as they do other cases. That doesn't work, and it will cost you a lot of time and money and play into the narcissist's aim to ensure you can't afford legal representation. The narcissist has to win and doesn't care how they do it or who they hurt on the way - and that includes their own children. Author Diana Jordan is a former solicitor and now works with people needing help through court proceedings against a narcissist. Many of her clients can't afford a lawyer and she has written this guide to the family court in England and Wales with the litigant in person very much in mind. The book explains how to navigate the family court and build your case with compelling evidence. You'll learn about: Solicitors and barristers - when you need one and what you can do yourself - and how to deal with your ex's lawyers McKenzie Friends if you can't afford a barrister How to address the court The different types of court hearings and how they work Writing statements Collecting evidence to build your case Giving evidence and being cross-examined in court hearings Cafcass, and how to prepare for interviews What's likely to go wrong, and how to deal with it How to appeal and make a complaint One of the impossible things asked of you will be to co-parent with the narcissist. You'll learn how to use parallel parenting instead and to protect your children as best you can from the narcissists dreadful parenting. You'll learn about parental alienation which is the worst form of abuse inflicted by a narcissist, and how to take action against it. With real life case studies from people who have been through the family court this book is your companion you'll want by your side to achieve the best outcomes you can for yourself and your children.

Leaving a narcissist and going through the family court is likely to be the scariest thing you'll ever have to do. This book will be your trusted companion and guide to the practical, legal and emotional challenges you'll face along the way. It contains information you won't find elsewhere and it costs a fraction of the price of an hour with a solicitor. Narcissists form a disproportionate percentage of those who separate and divorce because they're not good at relationships. They tend to fall out with family members and work colleagues too and they can't be in an intimate relationship without lying, manipulating, shaming, confusing and controlling. This book is for you if you are: A woman or a man who is or was married or cohabiting Leaving, or thinking of leaving, a difficult or narcissistic partner A parent facing children proceedings in the family court Being alienated from you child Trying to co-parent with a narcissist In divorce and/or financial proceedings with a narcissist A litigant in person (self-representing) Represented by a solicitor and/or barrister The different types of narcissist are explained, including covert narcissists, sociopaths, and those with borderline personality disorder. You're likely to find yourself in court when you leave because you can't negotiate with a narcissist and there's no other way to resolve the disputes around your children and/or come to a financial settlement. The book helps you to set boundaries with the narcissist, communicate with them and manage their behaviour to mitigate its effects on you and your children. Unfortunately, most lawyers and judges don't understand the narcissist's disordered personality and try to settle these disputes in the same way as they do other cases. That doesn't work, and it will cost you a lot of time and money and play into the narcissist's aim to ensure you can't afford legal representation. The narcissist has to win and doesn't care how they do it or who they hurt on the way - and that includes their own children. Author Diana Jordan is a former solicitor and now works with people needing help through court proceedings against a narcissist. Many of her clients can't afford a lawyer and she has written this guide to the family court in England and Wales with the litigant in person very much in mind. The book explains how to navigate the family court and build your case with compelling evidence. You'll learn about: Solicitors and barristers - when you need one and what you can do yourself - and how to deal with your ex's lawyers McKenzie Friends if you can't afford a barrister How to address the court The different types of court hearings and how they work Writing statements Collecting evidence to build your case Giving evidence and being cross-examined in court hearings Cafcass, and how to prepare for interviews What's likely to go wrong, and how to deal with it How to appeal and make a complaint One of the impossible things asked of you will be to co-parent with the narcissist. You'll learn how to use parallel parenting instead and to protect your children as best you can from the narcissists dreadful parenting. You'll learn about parental alienation which is the worst form of abuse inflicted by a narcissist, and how to take action against it. With real life case studies from people who have been through the family court this book is your companion you'll want by your side to achieve the best outcomes you can for yourself and your children.

Tina Swithin was swept off her feet by a modern day Prince Charming and married him one year later. Tina soon discovered that there was something seriously wrong with her fairytale. The marriage was filled with lies, deception, fraud and many tears. Tina was left in an utter state of confusion. This wasn't the man that she married...or was it? Tina first heard the term, Narcissistic Personality Disorder from her therapist in 2008 but quickly dismissed the notion that something could be wrong with her husband. It took several years for Tina to begin researching the disorder and suddenly, the past ten years of her life made complete sense. Tina soon discovered that there is only one thing more difficult than being married to a narcissist and that is divorcing a narcissist. In her book, Tina will explain how a smart, independent woman can fall prey to a narcissistic man. Tina discusses the red flag reflections that she chose to ignore while dating and during the marriage. Tina acted as her own attorney in an extremely high-conflict divorce and she will share the strategies that helped her to navigate through this battle while maintaining her sanity and sense of humor. Tina will help you to feel less alone in your journey and will assure you that there is light at the end of the tunnel no matter how dark things are right now. While Tina endured a tumultuous 6-year custody battle, she prevailed and today, her daughters have peace.

FINALLY - AN HONEST APPROACH TO DIVORCING A NARCISSIST Living with a narcissist can be awful. Divorcing one is a nightmare. They're always right, they want everything their way and they leave little room for compromise. How to Survive and Thrive When Divorcing a Narcissist offers solid advice on creating and sticking to a strategy so that you can get what you need and want from the divorce. Inside you'll discover: How to prepare yourself for the battle. How to be ready for the inevitable court fight. Insider child custody tips and tricks. What to expect during and after the divorce. And much more! This book lays out the divorce process in New Jersey and explains the five things to know when divorcing a narcissist. It's a must-read for anyone who is leaving a narcissistic spouse who shows even some of the symptoms of being a narcissist.

Prior to stepping onto the battlefield with a Narcissist, it is imperative to know their playbook both forwards and backwards. The behavior of individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder generally defies logic but sadly, their tactics in the Family Court System often fool Judges, Commissioners, Attorneys, Minor's Counsel, Social Workers, Therapists and even trained Evaluators. Narcissists are the masters of manipulation and projection and are known to launch stealth assaults that will leave their victims in an utter state of confusion and desperation. Victims are often left shattered and without a voice because they feel that no one could possibly believe or understand what they are silently enduring. Author, Tina Swithin, understands what it's like to divorce a narcissist. Tina spent over four years on the battlefield of the Family Court System while acting as her own attorney in a desperate attempt to protect her two young daughters. While Tina's first book, Divorcing a Narcissist: One Mom's Battle details Tina's personal journey and court battle, her new book offers solid advice and sanity-saving wisdom for transforming from victim to survivor. Education is power and Divorcing a Narcissist: Advice from the Battlefield is your personal guide and resource for navigating through high-conflict divorce. Receive advice for every stage of the battle: Leaving the Narcissist: Strategies and advice Divorcing: Advice on attorneys, tactical moves, courtroom preparation, anxiety/PTSD, evaluations and more. Narc Decoder: Learn to decode emails and communication. Children: Sharing custody, sheltering children and breaking the cycle. Life Beyond the Narcissist: Loving again, personal growth and healing. Stories of Hope Resources

Divorcing a narcissist or a psychopath is no easy or dangerless task. This book is no substitute for legal aid, though it does provide copious advice on anything from hiring an attorney, to domestic violence shelters, planning your getaway, involving the police, and obtaining restraining orders. Issues from court-mandated evaluation to custody are elaborated upon. The book describes the psychology of psychopathic narcissists, paranoids, bullies and stalkers and guides you through dozens of coping strategies and techniques, especially if you have shared children.

Are you trying to co-parent with a narcissistic ex? Have you found yourself in the war zone of Family Court? (These are two common problems that tend to go together like a hammer and nails.) Are you stuck in a legal battle where your ex uses the system as a sword? Do you need a how-to guide for both your heart and mind? Is there anything more stressful than being in Family Court? Is there anyone more difficult than an angry, bitter, toxic narcissist who NOT ONLY refuses to cooperate and follow court orders but who purposely sets out to sabotage you? Many facing this challenge learn how to fight after years of trying to keep the peace. However, they soon discover what we all knew: placating an ex will only work for so long. Eventually, things will come to a head, or a crisis happens, and we are called on to fight for ourselves, our rights, and our children. You can learn valuable lessons from a battle-scarred warrior-woman on the front lines of the U.S. Family Court. Author Grace W. Wroldson has been writing to spare mothers the same pain and trap she got caught up in for a decade. So, if you are on a mission to save yourself and your children from the toxic abuse of a narcissistic ex, the principles that these Super-Smart Strategies are based on will help you get back up on your feet again. They are also designed to keep you standing there! Activate your strategy mind-set with this book today!

Are you considering raising, or defending yourself against, legal action in the family court with a narcissistic opponent? Is your opponent controlling, abusive, unreasonable, manipulative, vindictive and obstructive? Can they convincingly hide these behavioural traits from the judge and other professionals involved? Does the narcissist project this behaviour onto you, and make shocking, false allegations? Do they attempt to embarrass you and defame your character? How To Annihilate A Narcissist In The Family Court will give you the knowledge required, to set you on the path for a successful outcome. It will prepare you to enter the court proceedings with your armour fully intact and with the full arsenal of ammunition required to reveal the narcissist's true character to the judge. A narcissist is an extremely powerful opponent, and the lengths they will go to 'win' will shock you to the core. With the insight in this book, you will outsmart them. You will remain one step ahead. You will be in control. Knowledge is power!