The Hardest Job I Ve Ever Had Stay At Home Dad

"Truly empathetic to the isolation and day-to-day grind of parenting." "Instead of the endless droll of how we should be grateful for the screams, cries, and destruction, Lance is honest about what it's actually like to be a parent." "This book made me feel so normal in my parenting life! I know I'm not alone!" "As a mom, I got more validation out of these pages than I ever did out in the parenting world. So good to read a book that gets it." "He does great at describing how being a stay at home parent is learning that you don't like the isolation, but you also don't know how to have normal conversations when you are finally around other adults so you hide from them while simultaneously wanting them. It's a vicious cycle!" "As a mom, what I loved (LOVED) about this book is how acutely Gilbert skewers the soul-draining isolation, the 'consistently traumatic' navigation between meltdown shoals, the confounding guilt and anger, the 'underwater slog' of the morning routine, and the chronic debilitation of incessantly worrying about the kids that is the stuff of almost all moms' daily life." "It's amazing how one book can make you feel so not alone through this parenting journey. Being a stay at home mom for 7years, I could relate word for word, front to back. I will say, how nice it is to FINALLY not feel so alone through this crazy life of a SAHP, that my feelings are normal." "This is not a 'chronicle of a clown-dad' (although it is laugh-out-loud funny) but a gender-neutral war story about the hair-tearing, brain-scarring, and precious job of being a SAHP (stay-at-home parent) to three girls. As Gilbert says, parenting is the most thankless job in the universe." "Spliced in are more nuanced and serious musings on things like the implosive impact of no time to exercise, the loss of creativity, the stripping away of identity, and the guilt he feels (yep, guilt gets mentioned a lot around parents) at not always finding parenting the fun he thought it would be." "Lance captures every aspect of being a SAHP; the good, the bad, the ugly, & the beautiful. I laughed, I cried, I related." "Absolutely loved this book! A must read for any parent, stay-at-home or not! I could relate to everything from the first page till the last. It helped me with the guilt and loneliness feeling. Thanks for capturing all the beauty and nastiness of being a SAHP so well!" "Many times, I felt as if the author was in my head, living my life! It felt great to know I'm not the only one out there on this rollercoaster of parent life. At times, I forgot the author was a male." "I found myself laughing at the realness, relatability, and the humor of it all. From the feelings of isolation and loneliness yet no mental energy or time to socialize to the endless laundry and dishes and cooking and kid drama, I felt myself nodding along in camaraderie as I read. This book truly helped me on an emotional and mental level." "Although Lance goes through the tasks of a stay at home parent, which in themselves aren't really exciting, he does it in such a relatable and humorous way you are eager to read on. If that isn't a sign of an excellent writer, I don't know what is." Are you a mom or dad? Have you or your spouse ever been a full-time stay-at-home parent? Join former Human Resources and Recruitment professional Lance Gilbert during the first year of the hardest job he's ever had! Lance didn't know what he was in for and was utterly shocked at just how stressful and exhausting the hidden life of a stay-at-home parent really is.

A practical guide for modern-day parenting geared towards stay-at-home dads, offering advice on everything from learning to cook and clean with children, to dealing with mental health and relationships and addressing male loneliness, with the easygoing perspective that dads can use their natural talents to parent any way that they choose. The Ultimate Stay-at-Home Dad manual takes the best advice and wisdom from a dads' group, and puts it into a format to help new stay-at-home fathers. Characterized by actionable and direct advice to fathers, the book takes on parenting from a father's point of view and encourages dads to use their natural talents to become a better parent. That advice is further bolstered by an additional 57 other dads who also give advice. All this advice is framed by the author's personal stories, which help the reader connect with the content and drives the advice home. This is a book that takes on day-to-day parenting, not just as a stay-at-home dad--working fathers could benefit from this book as much as at-home dads.

2013 Mom's Choice Awards® Winner MEN: Ever wonder about stay-at-home dads? What in the name of testosterone do they DO all day with those kids? I mean, are they really men at all, or are they some strange, invasive alien species, sent to Earth to defy and destroy all gender stereotypes?. WOMEN: Ever dream about stay-at-home dads? Do they really wash clothes, pick up after themselves, take great care of your kids, and have dinner waiting for you when you get home? There must be horrible, secret downside that they don’t warn you about, right?. Life Is Short, Laundry Is Eternal provides a rare glimpse into the natural habitat of this most mysterious and splendid of creatures, the North American Stay-at-Home Father (Paternus domesticus). Learn what motivates a man to pursue this noble occupation. Discover the countless joys and periodic sorrows that come with raising a family.. Witness the life and family of Scott Benner, author, activist, humorist, and 12-year stay-at-home dad. When Scott’s daughter, Arden, was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes at the age of two, his world took a sharp turn, but his positive outlook on life did not waver.. Scott’s colloquial wisdom will warm your heart while it challenges your ideas about parenting and gender roles in today’s household. Written from a truly unique point of view in a style both poignant and playful, Life Is Short, Laundry Is Eternal is an honest portrait of the modern family.

Attention! In your hand is an indispensable training manual for new recruits to fatherhood. Written by ex-Commando and dad of three, Neil Sinclair, this manual will teach you, in no-nonsense terms, how to maintain morale in the ranks and how to feed, clothe, transport and entertain your troops. Plus much, much more. Let Training Commence.

From the creator of the popular website Ask a Manager and New York’s work-advice columnist comes a witty, practical guide to 200 difficult professional conversations—featuring all-new advice! There’s a reason Alison Green has been called “the Dear Abby of the work world.” Ten years as a workplace-advice columnist have taught her that people avoid awkward conversations in the office because they simply don’t know what to say. Thankfully, Green does—and in this incredibly helpful book, she tackles the tough discussions you may need to have during your career. You’ll learn what to say when • coworkers push their work on you—then take credit for it • you accidentally trash-talk someone in an email then hit “reply all” • you’re being micromanaged—or not being managed at all • you catch a colleague in a lie • your boss seems unhappy with your work • your cubemate’s loud speakerphone is making you homicidal • you got drunk at the holiday party Praise for Ask a Manager “A must-read for anyone who works . . . [Alison Green’s] advice boils down to the idea that you should be professional (even when others are not) and that communicating in a straightforward manner with candor and kindness will get you far, no matter where you work.”—Booklist (starred review) “The author’s friendly, warm, no-nonsense writing is a pleasure to read, and her advice can be widely applied to relationships in all areas of readers’ lives. Ideal for anyone new to the job market or new to management, or anyone hoping to improve their work experience.”—Library Journal (starred review) “I am a huge fan of Alison Green’s Ask a Manager column. This book is even better. It teaches us how to deal with many of the most vexing big and little problems in our workplaces—and to do so with grace, confidence, and a sense of humor.”—Robert Sutton, Stanford professor and author of The No Asshole Rule and The Asshole Survival Guide “Ask a Manager is the ultimate playbook for navigating the traditional workforce in a diplomatic but firm way.”—Erin Lowry, author of Broke Millennial: Stop Scraping By and Get Your Financial Life Together

It's a day like any other for Deuce Winters, a stay-at-home dad in sleepy Rose Petal, Texas, where he and his three-year-old daughter Carly are making their weekly trip to the grocery store. But the discovery of a dead body in his mini-van quickly throws his quiet life into disarray. In a town where gossip spreads faster than a brush fire in July, it doesn't help that the victim ruined Deuce's high school football career and married his ex-girlfriend. . . As the number one suspect in the court of public opinion, Deuce is determined to clear his name, with a little help from his wife Julianne, a high-powered attorney who lovingly refers to him as her "househusband." His search for the killer leads him to a business plan gone awry and a gaggle of jilted lovers. All the while, he'll have to contend with a diminutive but feisty detective, the ruthless preschool PTA, and more than his fair share of Texas-sized hairdos--not to mention the laundry. . . First in a New Series!

A revealing look at stay-at-home fatherhood-for men, their families, and for American society It's a growing phenomenon among American families: fathers who cut back on paid work to focus on raising children. But what happens when dads stay home? What do stay-at-home fathers struggle with-and what do they rejoice in? How does taking up the mother's traditional role affect a father's relationship with his partner, children, and extended family? And what does stay-at-home fatherhood mean for the larger society? In chapters that alternate between large-scale analysis and intimate portraits of men and their families, journalist Jeremy Adam Smith traces the complications, myths, psychology, sociology, and history of a new set of social relationships with far-reaching implications. As the American economy faces its greatest crisis since the Great Depression, Smith reveals that many mothers today have the ability to support families and fathers are no longer narrowly defined by their ability to make money-they have the capacity to be caregivers as well. The result, Smith argues, is a startling evolutionary advance in the American family, one that will help families better survive the twenty-first century. As Smith explains, stay-at-home dads represent a logical culmination of fifty years of family change, from a time when the idea of men caring for children was literally inconceivable, to a new era when at-home dads are a small but growing part of the landscape. Their numbers and cultural importance will continue to rise-and Smith argues that they must rise, as the unstable, global, creative, technological economy makes flexible gender roles both more possible and more desirable. But the stories of real people form the heart of this book: couples from every part of the country and every walk of life. They range from working class to affluent, and they are black, white, Asian, and Latino. We meet Chien, who came to Kansas City as a refugee from the Vietnam War and today takes care of a growing family; Kent, a midwestern dad who nursed his son through life-threatening disabilities (and Kent's wife, Misun, who has never doubted for a moment that breadwinning is the best thing she can do for her family); Ta-Nehisi, a writer in Harlem who sees involved fatherhood as "the ultimate service to black people"; Michael, a gay stay-at-home dad in Oakland who enjoys a profoundly loving and egalitarian partnership with his husband; and many others. Through their stories, we discover that as America has evolved and diversified, so has fatherhood.